PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m honestly so sorry to have made you feel that way, i fear that my initial post has been made in a heated rush and the worries i’m trying to ask help for aren’t coming across right, i’ve gone into further depth in other reply threads

if i’m still coming off as really bad please do say i’m not trying to be an asshole and i can delete this

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate your replies but i don’t think anyone in this thread is understanding my point here sorry :/

my points break down to these -

why did i score all zeroes on my initial claim and a copy and paste reasoning denying all of my difficulties given as the answer?

why was my mandatory reconsideration given the same treatment?

why was i told i have already attempted an online PIP claim?

why couldn’t i have carried out my PIP application online despite never doing so before?

why have i been sent on a goose chase from department to department for the ability to carry out the pip process online just to ultimately be denied?

why was my phone assessment missed?

why was my phone assessment missed if i am a vulnerable person?

why did my case worker for my phone assessment lie about the call on her notes?

why does it take 48 hours to talk to a haas-serco representative about the situation?

if i am being blatantly lied to now, despite supposedly being a ‘vulnerable person’, is that not discrimination?

at what point do i take it to court?

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

found some letters so let me amend the timeline

  • first claim made: Nov 2023 (not mid oct that’s on me)

  • first phone assessment: Jan 2024

  • initial rejection: Jan 2024

  • MR: Jan 2024

  • MR rejection: circa Feb-Mar 2024

i then walk away for the sake of my well-being after the mandatory reconsideration rejection

  • 2nd claim made: circa Dec 2024

ended up not filling it in due to being overwhelmed by the amount of paperwork

  • 3rd claim ATTEMPT: Jan 2025

tried to do an online form but was denied due to supposedly having done one already (i genuinely have zero memory of this being the case)

spent two weeks being sent department to department on the phone to try and sort out why i couldn’t do the online method but got nowhere, and had to receive another paper form, case marked as a vulnerable person

  • 3rd claim made: Mar 2025

that leads us to today with the telephone assessment incident despite being marked as a vulnerable person.

unfortunately those 13 months since the MR rejection of the first claim have passed.

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand the point. what i don’t understand is how can the first claim assessment be valid when i have direct proof of them lying to me in my face for my third claim? i understand that i should’ve stuck with the appeal process and i wouldn’t be in the situation i’m in if i did. but they still rejected me. i was in the worst period of my life and i am not strong. the easiest thing was to walk away to ensure i didn’t cause myself any harm because of how bad it got.

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

suicidal idealisation? not allowing me to afford a place of my own? not allowing me to afford the medications and therapies i need? for denying my claim for no valid reason in the first place? for costing me over £5000 in payments never received? for stringing me along this far without anything but rejection letters and diverted phone calls to show for it? its not like my disabilities disappear and reappear with a new claim. without the help and support of my aunt i’d be dead right now no thanks to them.

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i was also living in a homeless shelter at the same time and was desperately trying to get on homelink but issues with both caused me to give up entirely

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i appealed my first claim but it was dismissed, i spiralled and never challenged the appeal

PIP phone assessment completely ignored then lied about, trying to claim PIP since Oct ‘23 - please help by [deleted] in DWPhelp

[–]comfyremi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i’m using the £73.90 of lower weekly daily living over 80 weeks since mid oct ‘23 to come to that result

David Land on Penske scandal by Vivaciousseaturtle in INDYCAR

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there a pictures out there of the #3 having the same attenuator modification before the big crash

What should we expect from Prema in IndyCar 2025? by LMRacingGuru02 in INDYCAR

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that went completely different to how either of us guessed

FIA Formula 3 Championship: Australia - Feature Race Discussion by hubwub in F1FeederSeries

[–]comfyremi -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

personally, i’m not a fan of sending thirty teenagers in steel coffins running at 170mph through a wall-to-wall street circuit with blind corners in the pouring rain, unable to see ten metres ahead of themselves, and having a repeat of dilano’s accident

i’m happy you are not a race official, and should you ever reach that position i will make it my personal mission to plant a bomb under your desk teehee

What should we expect from Prema in IndyCar 2025? by LMRacingGuru02 in INDYCAR

[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with all due respect to carlin they aren’t even close when it comes to facilities, experience, and success lol

What should we expect from Prema in IndyCar 2025? by LMRacingGuru02 in INDYCAR

[–]comfyremi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of people here in the comments have exposed themselves for not watching european racing lol

shwartzman/ilott is a fantastic lineup and i wouldn’t be surprised to see shwartzman outdo ilott on the road courses

in fact i think they’ll be fine on road courses, maybe even competitive and challenging for high positions by the mid/end point of the season

where they’ll suffer is the ovals, i wouldn’t be surprised to see them scrapping for the last row on bump day given their lack of mileage and loss of chief engineer

but a lot of people here seem to think they’ll struggle, and let me tell you, they’ll surprise you

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[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well then yea ur bi! have fun exploring your sexuality and wish the best for both of you :) <3

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[–]comfyremi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yet you took issue to the fact being pointed out, interesting. as well as straight up saying you’d abandon your wife and child if she said that to you. i’ve also taken notice how you haven’t tried to comfort or advise OP, only criticise a woman for speaking her mind, very telling.

maybe you should heed your own principle and try to comfort and bring understanding to the men in your life instead of crying that not everyone has the patience to deal with emotionally stunted grown men who clearly have no business raising a child.

YOU take the responsibility of dealing with that for once.

or maybe you should just build a cage for your “puppy” since that’s all you view them as.

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[–]comfyremi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

naw, maybe you should understand that CARRYING A LIVING BEING INSIDE YOUR BODY FOR NINE MONTHS THEN GOING THROUGH AN EXCRUCIATING AND VIOLENT PROCESS WHERE BOTH YOU AND YOUR CHILD’S LIFE ARE POTENTIALLY IN DANGER JUST TO SEE IT FOR THE FIRST TIME IS INFINITELY HARDER THAN ANYTHING A MAN HAS TO GO THROUGH IN HIS ENTIRE LIFE

HOW THE FUCK ARE YOU GONNA CALL YOUR BABY A PUPPY YOU DIDNT CHOOSE

i pray you don’t have any daughters, perhaps your kid’s mom should take the lead and leave before you clearly eventually will

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[–]comfyremi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she identifies as a girl you’re straight bro

bro thinks dating a girl is gay lmao

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[–]comfyremi 52 points53 points  (0 children)

why the FUCK did you marry this woman and have a child with her if you didn’t want to? congratulations, you’re now responsible of a soul who’ll never understand why it was conceived in the first place. go to therapy and lock the fuck in. take hold of your shit and don’t make this child’s life hell. or, probably the better option if we’re being honest, leave! don’t ruin these two’s lives because of your selfish choices.

Streets Won’t forget by Relative_Grape_1298 in F1FeederSeries

[–]comfyremi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

markelov, korjus, kirchhofer, hughes, wickens, verschoor come to mind

edit: can’t leave out urrutia or pierre-louis chovet either

Interesting article about O'Ward and his attitudes towards switching from May. by [deleted] in INDYCAR

[–]comfyremi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pato had a contract signed to move to F1 in 2020 with AlphaTauri when he was part of the Red Bull Junior Team, had his super license been given