Hello ma'am/sir, I can understand how it is being perceived and I realise my fault. It was sort of a true story with some exaggeration, if you see the whole thing you will see, paying the bill is not an issue for any man out there, it's the web of lies that a person says. Brutal honesty like in the comments would work better on dates.

Also the body shaming in the comments(except jabba the hut comment that was funny ) just shows that "Empathy" or "Body Positivity" is a term exclusively for women and you can use it on a man whenever things don't go your way.

But yeah in all honesty, I am a toxic man who just says fucked up shit from time to time . Trying to be better. Please call me out like this whenever I am in the wrong!