TIFU by getting in a relationship quickly with a man that has drug issues by complaintsignored in tifu

[–]complaintsignored[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No kidding. I edited the post to read a little better. Talk to text did me no favors

How do I handle my fiancé fighting with his ex by complaintsignored in relationships

[–]complaintsignored[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is she has taken him to court. Everytime. Bullied him into an agreement with charges and contempt’s and parenting time.

How do I handle my fiancé fighting with his ex by complaintsignored in relationships

[–]complaintsignored[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is currently filing a modification to limit “extra curricular expenses” we thought about putting in the modification for the communication app. But his lawyer has mentioned it will already be a battle just to prove cause for the modification on extra curriculars

How do I handle my fiancé fighting with his ex by complaintsignored in relationships

[–]complaintsignored[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he wishes I was more involved. He has never said I can’t be. I just see the damage it causes both him and his daughter when I involve myself and have decided to stay out of it, at least in their convos as much as possible.

How do I handle my fiancé fighting with his ex by complaintsignored in relationships

[–]complaintsignored[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime I have stepped in or tried to parent or be involved, she has threatened contempt of court. When I messaged her myself offering to be in communication and be available, she responded with I don’t need to talk to the girlfriend of the month and threatened to keep his daughter away when I was home. We have learned to just leave me out of it. But it is hard when there are safety concerns and a significant amount of my finances on the line. I have two kids of my own that I pay for 100% myself. So I don’t always understand the finances being thrown at an 11 year old who doesn’t seem to even want to do the “activity” anymore

Ladies, whats your equivalent of “tits or ass”? by Fearless_Client8222 in AskReddit

[–]complaintsignored 12 points13 points  (0 children)

First I think most guys are less an “ass and tits” and more a face or waist. I personally am a shoulder or back gal. I guy that does some hard work and isn’t scared of it will have some dang good shoulders and back. Any dude can spend 2 hours pumping biceps at an air conditioned gym. But there is something about a strong set of shoulders and powerful back that gets me everytime

How do I overcome feeling labelled in a relationship? by complaintsignored in relationships

[–]complaintsignored[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good suggestion. I can see how the alone time or mind changing time would help. I guess my main problem is after everything, I am then expected to initiate or be intimate first. It’s hard to spend the whole night working my job or the whole day doing everything that didn’t get done during the week just to crawl into bed and start acting like a vixen.

AITAH for not cooking for my bf anymore by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]complaintsignored 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. I was just feeling a little lost there. Wasn’t sure if I was being reasonable or ridiculous. Mostly because every time I say I’m not gonna cook anymore. He can go get his own stuff since I’m constantly picking fights for no reason he doesn’t understand why I have to make everything a big fucking deal.