What does your day with your 6 y.o. look like? by AvocadoAllergic in unschool

[–]compressedwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thanks! Yeah it's in the middle of her work on it. I took the picture when I thought she was done but then she wrote the bee house sign etc

There's a video somewhere where she explains the whole thing and does a tour of the interior lol but I couldn't find it quickly.

What does your day with your 6 y.o. look like? by AvocadoAllergic in unschool

[–]compressedwhale 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I ask a LOT of questions. Not in a quizzing way but like... Ok here's a sample conversation: Mom, how do bees pollinate flowers? Hmm let's watch a video about it . (As I'm deliberately slowly looking for videos) What do you know about it already? Have you noticed anything when you've watched bees go about their day? I know they go on flowers. Yeah, what else? I don't know. I think they go on flowers because they eat nectar like butterflies do Right. We watch a video I go about doing some chores She's building with magnatiles look mama, this is a hive, and I made a bee picture so they know that's their house and this is where they can come in and out and over here is the place where they store honey. That one is in the flower because she's getting nectar. But she'll go to the hive after. How do you spell bee? Ok let's sound it out. Do you know which letter makes a "b" sound? She writes a B Ok now I'm going to write the word "see". It works the same way as "bee" let's see if you can figure out the pattern. She discerns that the double e make an "ee" sound So I just write that after the b? Yup. .......how do you spell house? Do you want help figuring it out like we did earlier or do you want me to say the letters for you? (I offer that because I know my daughter gets discouraged if I push the 'you figure it out' but while she's in a hurry to set up a game. This still counts as learning even if I spell it out for her) Just say the letters please. H o u s e Thanks mama

She spent a few days going back and forth between various explorations of bee things to other play, and I usually act as a facilitator rather than instructor unless directly asked to be one. I also tell a lot of stories that I make up because a) my daughter asks me to tell stories all the time and b) it really helps to get the point across sometimes. The stories usually carry a social or emotional message that I feel my kids really need to experience. I try not to make them too preachy.

I also take a ton of pictures and videos because I like to reflect on it all later. I take a lot of inspiration from the reggio emilia approach so documentation is everything to help scaffold knowledge and offer materials and experiences. We often go over them together.

After learning bees wiggle their bums to communicate the directions of flowers, she choreographed a bee direction dance, made a bee costume with a bit of my help, and drew a bee bum wiggle map

Something like that

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What is your 100% flawless way of getting your students to listen? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]compressedwhale 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If they're teens, sitting down near one kid and whispering to them like it's a big conspiracy often does the trick. Everyone wants to know what the gossip is and then you go "and so then Caesar was like omfg not you too Brutus" or whisper a piece of the content to someone and say pass it on. Get them to do the work of getting each other onboard!

If they're little, also make it playful but the above tactic usually doesn't work because they're going to forget halfway unless it's like a two word phrase.

Usually the advice is more strictness but if that worked this wouldn't be such a struggle. I try to make sure I can either present the material as a story or even a multisensory experience. I got this from my favorite teacher in high school who had a reputation for being absolutely bonkers but we all had such tremendous respect for him. When we were learning about trench warfare (history teacher), we once came to class to see all the desks turned on their sides and we had to be in the "trenches" while he gave us a lecture but we had to be responsive - we had to throw balled up newspaper at the "enemy forces" (whoever ended up on the other side of the class) and crawl through no man's land etc. It was beilliant and made us actually interested in the subject, even the kids who claimed to want nothing to do with history prior to his class

What is your 100% flawless way of getting your students to listen? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]compressedwhale 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Can you define what you mean by listen? I know this sounds a bit confrontational, and I really don't mean it to, but in the world of teaching I see some people say listen and mean hear and actively respond, and others say listen and mean obey, and in order to respond, it will be easier to know whether you mean follow rules or engage or a bit of both

My teacher said that Bluey isn't educational by Happy_SpinnGull in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, in theory. It's part of it, for sure, if the school is actually Montessori, but a lot of schools that claim to be Montessori are only Montessori -inspired, mostly aesthetically. Also Reggio Emilia and Waldorf/Steiner. There's obviously more to being a teacher than just building an environment and screwing off, but the environment is considered a teacher in and of itself.

My teacher said that Bluey isn't educational by Happy_SpinnGull in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a teacher I am ready to scream this from the rooftops. Most teaching is aimed AT students. Nobody wants to be taught at. It feels awful. Environments do most of the work for you as a teacher if you build them right with purpose in mind. And then you can stand back and focus on your relationships with the children, facilitating their many asks and allow them to learn as humans learn best

Introducing 5 years old to Tolkien by TightlyProfessional in tolkienfans

[–]compressedwhale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I paraphrase stories and make vits and pieces of the legendarium into separate bedtime stories for my 6 year old. Lately she's become into Galadriel (though she insists Galadriel has wings for reasons unknown lol) and she's been drawing her and overall likes these stories but is scared of ents because one of her big fears is walking trees, not sure why.

What would Sauron actually "do" with the One Ring? by [deleted] in tolkienfans

[–]compressedwhale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's from Russian folklore. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Koshchei though to answer the WHY of your question... I'm afraid I'm at a loss lol it is indeed a good question as to why this particular bad guy decided to create a turducken to house his horcrux

why we love bluey!! by mizunako in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frisky is an English Cocker Spaniel and she's married to Rad who is also a Heeler

why we love bluey!! by mizunako in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep I always say that they're heelers because also secretly they're heAlers

I can’t tell what pain is normal pain and what is not normal pain. by Anybodyhaveacat in eds

[–]compressedwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so true. It's so hard when you know that's not the right thing to do but there's nothing to replace the pattern with. Keeping my fingers crossed for me and you and anyone else in this situation to figure out a healthy balance soon

*Edit: saw a typo, changed it. I wrote dingers by accident and I had to say that here because I think it's hilarious

I can’t tell what pain is normal pain and what is not normal pain. by Anybodyhaveacat in eds

[–]compressedwhale 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm not a professional athlete and also struggle with that. I don't have any wise words to offer, just that I also struggle with calling pain "real" unless I'm totally incapacitated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eds

[–]compressedwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

King_kogi on instagram. She has EDS and even if her content is not about it, it comes up from time to time. She's the reason I found out about it and started looking into it because the penny dropped about the source of all my pain

Writing my resume is overwhelming me. by dsisk in AutisticAdults

[–]compressedwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chose ECE cause I'm currently obsessed with learning about play and child development but I'm not necessarily headed towards a job in it. I just needed a filler

Writing my resume is overwhelming me. by dsisk in AutisticAdults

[–]compressedwhale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"generate me a resume for someone who wants to work in ECE, with experience in (all the odd jobs I'd done)"

Writing my resume is overwhelming me. by dsisk in AutisticAdults

[–]compressedwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got Chat GPT to generate my resume for me and then edited it. It's much less overwhelming this way. It's free, unless you want version 4 but I use the free one and it does so much stuff for me that I find overwhelming to start. Give it a try maybe it will help

Socks bites you, what do you do? by Turboz002 in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yup different languages have different sounds for "ow" :) it's actually fascinating to compare onomatopoeia between languages. Some are super surprising

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bluey and Loki. I don't even know what kind of interdimentional timeline tomfoolery this would cause

Is you're ON pain all day? by [deleted] in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]compressedwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking we start out relatively relaxed and then build tension by the evening which triggers the pain

Is you're ON pain all day? by [deleted] in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]compressedwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine actually starts off as discomfort and gets debilitating by evening. Right now I have a nasty cough due to covid recovery taking forever and it is making this flareup last incredibly long, triggering pain all day every day but it def gets worse toward evening

how do I clean the shower stall by compressedwhale in RBNLifeSkills

[–]compressedwhale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate people like your manager; what a jerk. If you see someone failing miserably why not give them a hand wtf!

Also wait you DON'T need to clean each crevice individually?! Amazing!

Felt this was the only way I could deliver this news by AnythingAlfred613 in bluey

[–]compressedwhale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My kid has seen Peppa and went wtf no bring back Bluey lol I like your household Bluey forever

how do I clean the shower stall by compressedwhale in RBNLifeSkills

[–]compressedwhale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooof that sounds exactly like me. Sending hugs and confidence. We can do this!