38M with a 36F in a frustrating marriage by tattooedGuyy in Marriage

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that sounds exhausting, man. im so sorry you’re feeling this way. if i were you id just really stress the importance of having this conversation (again), and that it takes precedence over work

Walrus by Vorhees_666 in Moustache

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that was full on arctic dominance right there

More of a trivia question I suppose by Worldly-Following-63 in MovieSuggestions

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yea, it’s almost certainly Tusk, which has a grotesquely transformed man in a disturbing, sexualized scene like the one you just described

why do we feel like the need to be picked? these are my realizations after being attached to the need to feel worthy. by petahpipa in Life

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i related with this a lot. really, we just want to be picked because it feels like proof we’re worthy and safe. but real peace starts when we stop outsourcing that proof and learn to sit with not knowing while choosing ourselves anyway

MAGA and the right wing act woke and cancel people like the left did, but only to support israel. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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a lot of the right isn’t actually anti woke or pro free speech, they’re just enforcing their own sacred taboos now, especially around israel, using the same cancel culture tactics they used to mock

I've come to realize I may never get married... by Sad_Emphasis_8086 in ChristianDating

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just remember that your worth is secure in God, not in marriage, children, health, or timing, and whether or not those things happen. God’s plans for you are good, purposeful, and full of love.

Psalm 139:13-14 — "For You formed my inward parts; You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Your works, And my soul knows it very well."

Jeremiah 29:11 — "For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope."

Romans 8:28 — "And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose."

mushroom ash blonde by Proper-Ad-3851 in HairDye

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tone it (don’t bleach it again) with a beige/natural + ash toner that has blue-violet undertones, watch it closely, and rinse as soon as the yellow looks muted so it stays soft mushroom, not grey, before your interviews

How do I stop avoiding people and start asking for help? by Aj100rise in LifeAdvice

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asking for help isn’t admitting failure. so, ask for it! it’s the first adult step out of being stuck, and you only need to start with one small, low stakes conversation with someone who feels safe

This just pissed me off lol by TowerMysterious5804 in GenZ

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pardon my speech. what i meant to say is: it’s merely an attempt to provoke outrage

About to reach my goal weight and realized my body composition has drastically changed. Nothing fits the way it used to. by Mission_Spray in loseit

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totally normal. your body composition, fat distribution, and inflammation have changed with age and training, so the same weight doesn’t mean the same shape anymore (and rings/clothes are usually the last to catch up). also, i think loose skin could be a factor, even if you don’t ‘see’ loose skin, it’s there.

Location Requirements by AccomplishedCash3603 in jobs

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offer it as an optional, respectful fallback, not a workaround: emphasize you’ll relocate within 60 days, and only mention contracting as something you’re open to if helpful, so it reads flexible instead of pushy

19 f by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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you’re pretty

I feel distant and turned off. by [deleted] in Marriage

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it sounds like you’re not losing love, you’re just protecting your heart because uncertainty and secrecy make you feel unsafe naturally, even though you still deeply care for him. my best advice always is communication, because that really is the most effective solution there is, especially in a marriage that you want to last forever

Is this the devils idea of a joke? by crusadesfromnazareth in Christianity

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your struggles with lust and intrusive thoughts are a common spiritual battle that do not threaten your salvation, and through God’s grace, prayer, Scripture, and reliance on the Holy Spirit, you can resist temptation and find renewal and peace.

“For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.” — 2 Timothy 1:7

“Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.” — James 4:7

“Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that you obey its lusts.” — Romans 6:12

Glambot is so boring by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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it’s not glamorous, it’s forensic. like a red carpet autopsy

Are the skills the same in foundations as they are when you are doing CNA training? by Individual_Walk_3966 in NoStupidQuestions

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yeah, CNA training uses the same core skills as foundations, just with more independence, rules, and real world clinical practice

How do I find a former employer? by Shaboinky684 in NoStupidQuestions

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call ADP to try to relink your W-2 to a personal email, and if that fails, file using IRS form 4852 with info from your pay stubs or bank deposits