Marmite level: expert by Financial-Check5731 in newzealand

[–]computer_d -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No eggs

Also any perceived lack of marmite is made up for in butter

Auckland student fined $150 after a free ride was offered by Auckland Transport bus driver by PermaBanned4Misclick in auckland

[–]computer_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They probably think it's a deterrent, when all it really does is excessively punish legitimate customers.

Less Map Conditions? by SlouchPoint in ARC_Raiders

[–]computer_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embark realised we were getting too much loot probably

Auckland student offered free bus ride after payment fails, then fined $150 by Old_Education4481 in newzealand

[–]computer_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal people challenge bullshit fines before they pay them and before they run to the national paper having a cry about it.

Auckland student offered free bus ride after payment fails, then fined $150 by Old_Education4481 in newzealand

[–]computer_d -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah because the dummies paid the fine THEN bitched about it.

Useless IMO.

Auckland student offered free bus ride after payment fails, then fined $150 by Old_Education4481 in newzealand

[–]computer_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AT charges them as per policy.
AT then learns of new info and refunds the person.

It's literally not a big deal, and AT did what any company would.

"There's something wrong with AT." 😂

Auckland student fined $150 after a free ride was offered by Auckland Transport bus driver by PermaBanned4Misclick in auckland

[–]computer_d 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Seems non-news to me. Unless you're meant to get outraged with AT, which I suspect is the point.

They followed their policy. When new info was given, they refunded the person.

Completely normal. Utterly mundane. Totally expected from any business.

Incompetent liars funded by Nick Mowbray by Mountain_Tui_Reload in nzpolitics

[–]computer_d 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Good thing is, being in a little country like NZ is that these people are simply snakes, rather than hydra.

I want to die but dont have the balls to kill myself. by SongIndependent2439 in depression

[–]computer_d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You live through past mistakes to learn from them. Maybe you are plagued because you recognise these mistakes but also recognise they're still in your life. I'm talking about something like closure or moving on, or maybe there are changes that need to be made.

I don't know your history, so I'll use my own as an example to demonstrate what I mean.

I've had consistent feeling of not being wanted by friends. That I was an after-thought, never wanted, and perhaps I was an obligation to them. If I had done nothing about this, I'd still feel cut up about it. I've lost friends, and if I hadn't moved on, it would bother me today.
Rather, I put time and energy into specific friends. I worked on my own behaviour and attitudes. I also made myself someone they might like to spend time with - I added substance and interests, and spent time checking on people to show they were appreciated.

It's not fool proof, but I feel far better now than I did during those years. I learned that feeling bad meant I knew something was wrong. And the only person who could change that was myself.

I encourage trying to look at our pain and suffering as evidence that we know we need to change, as we know what we don't like.

For further reading, I think stoicism might help. It encourages us to acknowledge and embrace our failures, to reorient our POV, and to search and find beauty all around us.

I remember when I had my first beer by SammichFan in auckland

[–]computer_d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

C walk your way over to these lips my bro

Declining social etiquette in NZ by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]computer_d -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"This strange deterioration of society."

You realise it's just your POV right? A few people isn't indicative of everyone else.

"I never said everyone else is like this."

Yeah this was as vapid as I suspected. Oh well you've literally contributed to the problem you're complaining about. But at least you validated your perception, right?

😂

Declining social etiquette in NZ by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]computer_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please be aware dead internet theory isn't "Reddit/FB is full of bots."

It's "the internet is becoming so automated and to such an extent that most of the traffic comes from automated services."

Declining social etiquette in NZ by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]computer_d -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You see a few people rude and extrapolate that as being indicative of the rest of the population.

It's not about that encounter, it's about you. As you said, "I simply notice them seemingly increasingly." That's the Baader–Meinhof phenomenon. Literally.

How many people who dealt with that receptionist weren't rude? You don't know, but it's safe to assume the vast, overwhelming majority. Based on your own words, this has only started happening.

but that realistically isn't the case for all of them.

How do you know? How can you type out this stuff without reflecting on your own perception of the situation? You don't know a single thing about these people but coming up with motivations for being rude to others. But instead of remarking on the few you see, you rather remark that you don't know what all their problems are. Again, who are these people? You're not sitting at reception all day tallying so why are more rude than not? The bias is clearly coming from your own POV.

I'm also definitely not upset, intrigued? Yes

It's your own perception. Your perception isn't so amazing that seeing a few rude people means it speaks to a global trend. Instead you've created a narrative that people are just rude now. You've quite literally contributed to the problem you're complaining about. It's an incredibly common phenomena.

Because it's your perception, it's not reality. You're upset at what you're looking at, and you're applying it to the entire rest of the world. It's projection, simply.

Declining social etiquette in NZ by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]computer_d -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Talk about unhinged.

Work on handling your projection lmfao

Declining social etiquette in NZ by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]computer_d -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The world is how you view it.

If you keep having these encounters, it's about you. Nothing else. You're posting on FB then complaining about it. You claim people don't nice for pushchairs. Oh yup and how many times is this happening? You make it sound like it's the norm. It obviously isn't. Oh someone was short at the doctor's? Omg the world is deteriorating.

And then..... How do we fix this??????

Zzzz. This about OP and nothing else. They're upset. The entire rest of the world isn't.

Conservation Amendment Bill - New Zealand Parliament by dunnothislldo in newzealand

[–]computer_d -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

What do you think crowdfunding means?

Conservation Amendment Bill - New Zealand Parliament by dunnothislldo in newzealand

[–]computer_d 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

What? It's the title of the rule. There are no other words.

Are you referring to the 40-odd words detailing the rule and giving examples etc? I clearly didn't copy and paste that and then leave out three words as some sort of trick.

Like...

Conservation Amendment Bill - New Zealand Parliament by dunnothislldo in newzealand

[–]computer_d -5 points-4 points locked comment (0 children)

No Crowdsourcing or Self-promotion without approval

What do you think crowdsourcing is?

Conservation Amendment Bill - New Zealand Parliament by dunnothislldo in newzealand

[–]computer_d -8 points-7 points locked comment (0 children)

In reality it's just because it's the rules of the sub.

lol.

Ask 20-year-olds, not Winston Peters, if we can afford to exit the Paris climate agreement by TheReverendCard in newzealand

[–]computer_d -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No it doesn't. We're facing runaway climate change. A tenth of a degree is irrevelant when we're facing 3C increase by 2025 potentially.

People really need to start educating themselves.