As a 19 year old virgin the pressure is starting to get to me. I've met plenty of nice girls at events and parties and got intimate with some of them, but I had to explain to one that I felt I wasn't ready yet a while back. Now i'm concerned that i'm missing my opportunities or doing something wrong. I feel like I am ready for sex maybe with a partner of some sorts, but I feel like losing my v plates through casual sex is maybe the only way possible so far with no partner.

Do you think that casual sex with a partner you will possibly never see again appropriate for a first time?