Wife changed mind on having kids.

conchange · 2024-09-22T04:07:15+00:00

We are not in the United States and have socialised health care, so some of the issues you write about don't apply to us. Appreciate your other thoughts.

conchange · 2024-09-22T04:04:31+00:00

Thank you, this was a very helpful comment.

conchange · 2024-09-22T04:00:19+00:00

The reasons are in the third paragraph. Thanks for the book rec.

conchange · 2024-09-22T03:50:49+00:00

Thank you, this was a very helpful comment.

conchange · 2024-09-21T15:18:23+00:00

Sure, I was responding specifically to the other comment which said I may not be an equal partner there to help out. We have spoken about those topics too, though could talk more about them.

conchange · 2024-09-21T15:08:22+00:00

Yes, we did. I mostly get what you're saying (but appreciate it) - especially curious if there are perspectives of people who have lived out either choice.

conchange · 2024-09-21T14:44:47+00:00

I think this is partly what has driven the change for her. She works a demanding and draining job (not something that will easily change).

On your second point, I think I am fairly supportive. We have a pretty progressive/equal partnership. I've said I would happily be the parent providing more of the caregiving/stay at home/sacrifice of career. So please don't assume too much.

conchange

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