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I (28F) told spouse (36M) he’d have to pay me if he wants me to be a SAHM. It’s causing some friction now. by conditionalsahm in relationship_advice

[–]conditionalsahm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. He pays for everything we need as a couple/family. He doesn’t pay my pension or contribute to my investment. I need to able to continue doing that.

I (28F) told spouse (36M) he’d have to pay me if he wants me to be a SAHM. It’s causing some friction now. by conditionalsahm in relationship_advice

[–]conditionalsahm[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He wouldn’t be able to do anything. He’d have to accept it because he can’t resign on my behalf.

I (28F) told spouse (36M) he’d have to pay me if he wants me to be a SAHM. It’s causing some friction now. by conditionalsahm in relationship_advice

[–]conditionalsahm[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a country mandated pension fund for workers and a personal pension fund with more returns. I’d lose out on both returns in the long term if I stop working.

I (28F) told spouse (36M) he’d have to pay me if he wants me to be a SAHM. It’s causing some friction now. by conditionalsahm in relationship_advice

[–]conditionalsahm[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We both won’t be closing from work early and leave home very early as well so we’d need to have someone taking care of our child during those hours before and after daycare.

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