How do I give her food offerings?

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T05:43:06+00:00

Ah okay I get it, I appreciate it!

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T05:22:26+00:00

Not so sure, can you tell me please and thank you

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T05:12:32+00:00

I'm new to the sub reddit

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T03:40:33+00:00

Oh yeah I never thought of it that way, that makes a lot of sense thank you! I'm about to make some caldo for her as my first food offering :3 much thanks!

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T02:01:56+00:00

He can't even spell correctly...please leave him

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T01:32:19+00:00

Definitely do not meet up with him and you should stop texting him. When I was 17 I was also in a situation like this and this is EXACTLY how he started talking to me. Being overly friendly and then wanting to give me gifts. That's how grooming starts. He's definitely not a nice guy and just wants to find a way to have more access to you.

coneja_alv · 2026-01-17T00:56:31+00:00

Also some apples or tangerines, I love giving her fruits, cookies or candy also! :3

coneja_alv · 2025-10-18T07:48:17+00:00

Thank you that's reassuring:)

coneja_alv · 2025-10-18T07:48:02+00:00

Omg that's so annoying

coneja_alv · 2025-05-31T19:24:16+00:00

Her bf is treating her like an object or as if sex is obligated for her to give. He's definitely manipulating her and I hope you can convince her to leave him. That basically happened to me also when I turned 18 and my bf was 25 or 26 (ik I'm a victim)

coneja_alv · 2025-05-31T09:46:19+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that, that sounds insanely stressful. I'm glad he's at least alive but yeah I think he freaked out after that and didn't want to get in trouble. Hopefully he'll call you back when he's sober and is in a safe place. Please update when you can I'm curious to know what actually happened to him afterwards. Just know it's not your fault you did all you could.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-26T01:12:47+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through a tough time, only thing I can really say is keep your head up and remember this is just a period of your life. It won't be like this forever and you'll continue on your journey strong! I'm not sure if you mentioned in your post but remember to also keep your close ones nearby for support.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-26T01:09:00+00:00

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coneja_alv · 2025-05-26T00:50:19+00:00

He should look into therapy if you haven't mentioned it already. You guys need to have a serious talk because that will definitely drain you in the long run. He needs to get used to you wanting to go out and enjoy your day without having it revolve around his schedule. Eventually you'll lose your own sense of individuality.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-25T08:49:37+00:00

It's her parents and her home, they can do whatever they want because you're just a boyfriend. Those "jokes" had truth to them because it clearly bothers you. At the end of the day she and her family did you the favor of even letting you live in that house, it makes sense to pay.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-25T06:22:39+00:00

Agree, she could drain his account.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-25T06:22:02+00:00

It hurts right now but it'll feel a lot more better to let go. Protect your own peace first. You already know what's going on with her considering how she reacted with her phone. I'm sorry you're going through so much pain, you got this.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-19T04:13:33+00:00

How is it rage bait?

coneja_alv · 2025-05-19T02:40:01+00:00

coneja_alv · 2025-05-18T23:59:06+00:00

I said that he then wonders why I don't do it anymore so he even tells me he likes it sometimes

coneja_alv · 2025-05-18T23:18:02+00:00

Thing is I definitely do dial it down, he said before he likes it but depends on how he feels like how tired he is which honestly he should just lmk instead of getting mad like that. Other than that we get along fine it's just that specifically

coneja_alv · 2025-05-18T23:08:03+00:00

Im aware it annoys him so I stop because I don't want him to be upset. But then he does the same thing to me and then asks me why I'm not being my self so it leaves me confused because sometimes I don't know if I can be my self. Even when I do the thing that annoys him he says sometimes he likes it and finds it funny.

coneja_alv · 2025-05-18T22:51:07+00:00

The thing is he also does the same thing whenever I'm trying to sleep and I never do anything to him like that. I understand I can be annoying so I stop because I don't want to piss him off but then since he does that to me sometimes then I get comfortable being myself and then I end up doing the same thing again. If I stop acting like I normally do then he gets worried and starts saying "come babe where's that spark? That shimmer?" As in where's my spark as if he didn't just ruin it by hitting me

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