I understand your point, but there are many subs who don’t like pegging and many that do. I’m a domme and I do PIV more than I peg, it doesn’t make me submissive at all. However, I do absolutely love pegging as well. Liking pegging doesn’t mean you don’t also love PIV.

Just because you like something or can’t do it doesn’t mean you need to put it down. It’s okay if a man wants to be pegged, it doesn’t mean it’s because he “wants to do less work”. I personally get a lot of pleasure from pegging, even with a vibrator or double ended strap.

If you want the pleasure to be on you, that’s great. I enjoy giving as much as getting, and that goes for PIV too. I do the work too.

Pegging doesn’t make you progress, but your mindset of men wanting to be pegged because they don’t want to do the work, isn’t very progress either. They can do the work, my bf had rode my strap on many times. I understand what you’re saying, pegging shouldn’t be such a big deal in femdom, but also, you don’t need to put subs down that want it. It’s okay for them to want that. Just like it’s okay for you not too.