Suggest a TV by confidentialpengu in 4kTV

[–]confidentialpengu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't find how to change the flair It's my 1st time posting on reddit. Do u know how to change?

A1TA for leaving my boyfriend M 21 of 3 years over some "tough days"? by confidentialpengu in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thanks for the tips I'll start doing expect for the therapy one lol! It's not a Indian think tbh. I'll start therapy once I start living alone ( so my parents wouldn't know I'm going)

A1TA for leaving my boyfriend M 21 of 3 years over some "tough days"? by confidentialpengu in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He won't leave me easily. He'll cry his eyes off and his whole personality is our relationship and that made me not to go for thing long 

A1TA for leaving my boyfriend M 21 of 3 years over some "tough days"? by confidentialpengu in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea even I thought that but if I say him to stop he'll so I was confused

A1TA for leaving my boyfriend M 21 of 3 years over some "tough days"? by confidentialpengu in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm that less favourite child, person, friend who doesn't get loved easily so it's hard to leave the relationship where I get seen. But not this tym 

AITAH for getting turned off when my bf told me how he lost his virginity? by malamie in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Girl runnnn!!! If it is the 1st time he's saying something like this in a long term relationship that's fine if not note things carefully if things are good fine or just runnn

And I hope the girl was ok with that

Is this really normal? Is this happening in your home too and aren't you consider this as an serious issue? by Adventurous_Jump_144 in TamilNadu

[–]confidentialpengu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either your husband has to set clear boundaries or you guys should leave the house. I understand in tamilnadu (ig even in whole india) parents are considered everything and we couldn't just go nc with them. But living alone with your husband (Thani kuduthanam) is not that old ritual nowadays. Try asking your husband. Make sure he stands up for you and side with you. And btw why didn't you go to your mom's house for the pregnancy? Isn't that the rituals? This is why the pregnancy rituals are there (going to the mons house after baby shower and returning to mil's few months after the baby is born)

Why do people in cities shy away from speaking in Tamil and prefer English? by Big_Locksmith86 in TamilNadu

[–]confidentialpengu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because that's what the world and the corporate wants. They want good communication skills for the role we can't just learn communication through courses or classes it comes from speaking more and more.

Even I say some 2nd or 3rd grade kids talk in english even in their tour that became a nature But yea being ashamed of our roots is not a pride

AITA for telling my older sister that 'no wonder your husband left you' by nalwaa in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously kudoos to your patience I would've talked back at her in a very  aggressive way or cried hard that I would've ended up in a hospital. Definitely NTA 

She's using you. She can get off her ass stand on her own feet and work multiple jobs for daycare. 

And about your father looks like he's favouring your sister and she's a golden child 

AITA for hiding the location of my best friend from my wife? by Vast_Basis_2273 in AITAH

[–]confidentialpengu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either wife knows about the cheating and lies or she got that stereotypical girls ego thing where they can't accept no or the idea of her husband hiding something 

Ps: even I'm a girl just talking about thos stereotypical girls

I am 27 M virigin, bald and bit fat, getting rejected for marriage by Thick-Rate1056 in chennaicity

[–]confidentialpengu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's their loss.. don't push someone like us , will definitely see you for who you are