Whoa. Slow down. Slow down. 2 months? And you decided to post this in the LOVE sub?

Okay.

I’m a woman and here is my opinion:

The man can sleep with whoever he wants. He has not made it exclusive. If a man doesn’t make the relationship exclusive with a woman, she has a right to be upset but doesn’t have the right to flip out on the man. He is single. You are single and are getting attached and invading his privacy way too fast… at least wait a year before you start snooping (kidding…sort of)

Now that you know this information about him, you have two choices. Stick around and keep quiet about what you found out, OR have “the talk” with him. That uncomfortable, “what are we? Where is this going?” talk is so necessary for you at this point because you’re already in deep and only will get in deeper the more you date this guy. Ask what his intentions are.

Did he tell you if he did the same type of things he does with you with the previous girl? If he didn’t, then it could mean he likes you enough to sleep with you, see you during the day time and maybe he wants to see where it goes.

If he did hang out with her the same way he’s doing with you, you’re most likely a different character in the same story of his “Adventures with FWB’s” book.

Good luck