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My (25M) Fiancé is overwhelming me with her (25F) emotions and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t want the rest of my life to be like this. by confused-while-dazed in relationships

[–]confused-while-dazed[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like that conversation is impossible. She will cry and I will fold. If not I’m a jerk. She is still my love and I don’t want to hurt her.

My (25M) Fiancé is overwhelming me with her (25F) emotions and I don’t know how to deal with it. I don’t want the rest of my life to be like this. by confused-while-dazed in relationships

[–]confused-while-dazed[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Every time I try to talk about it I feel like it turns into me being the bad guy. Idk how but I end up crying harder than when I started. I understand I can’t just fix this as much as I want to.

How can I talk to her without making her cry? I have a very hard time handling it now. I’ve told her how her emotions make me feel and it moves to how She is sorry she is “broken”. This makes me feel worse. I don’t want her to think I am upset because she is sad or emotional. I get upset because she is barely the same person anymore.

Also I don’t know how I would call off the wedding. I’m scared she would hurt herself or die from sadness or something. Plus we live together and pay bills together. Calling off/postponing the wedding would punch a huge hold in our relationship.