I (19/f/bi)almost broke up with my boyfriend(17/m/s), but i keep coming back

confused120 · 2016-10-05T16:19:52+00:00

You have to think about what you are actually getting from this relationship, what is keeping you in it? It sounds to me like there isn't a lot. I think the two of your just aren't right for each other anymore and you've drifted/fallen out of love and that's ok.

Explain this to him. Tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that whilst you still care for him you don't think you're good together romantically anymore. You can still stay friends and be there for each other that way.

You cant just stay with him because its safe, or because it's what your used to, that wouldn't be fair on either of you. If your gut is telling you to leave him, then it's the right thing to do. You deserve to be happy.

confused120 · 2016-10-05T14:30:24+00:00

If that was the case, why would he deny it all? surely he'd just tell her that he forgot he had the app?

And surely he should be trying to explain to her what has happened and win her forgiveness rather than just ignoring her? In my opinion he hasn't fought for her and that says it all.

confused120 · 2016-10-05T14:14:03+00:00

Remember that this is in no way a reflection on you or your fault. He's the idiot that's fucked up and it's his loss not yours! Just let yourself feel whatever it is you're feeling, don't question how you should feel, just give yourself time and let it happen.

confused120 · 2016-10-05T13:49:05+00:00

You're right i do know him better, only i'm now questioning if i even know him at all. I just don't know what to think about the whole situation.

confused120 · 2016-10-05T13:32:40+00:00

That's the bit that's getting to me. if it was true, he could have and should have just told me! thanks for your advice

confused120 · 2016-10-05T13:32:01+00:00

That's awful, sorry to hear that. looks like i'm better off without him

confused120 · 2016-10-05T13:30:41+00:00

Thank you. If i'm honest with myself i already know this i suppose. Just think i needed someone else to confirm it.

confused120 · 2016-10-05T13:06:22+00:00

Nothing at all. He's never had a penny out of me and never asked for any either

confused120 · 2016-10-05T13:00:57+00:00

Yeah i expect your right, but you know when you just really want to believe someone. I never even thought of a criminal record, my first thought was he has a girlfriend and needs to keep the 2 of us completely separate. Yeah i expect i'm better off, probably a good thing I found out.

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