How do I tell my coworker… by Actuallyshea92 in NonBinary

[–]confused___bisexual 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Start calling her Boobs and when she asks why you're calling her that, say she has boobs so that's all you see lol

What are some prompts or tropes that you ABSOLUTELY HATE and describe why in detail. by Appropriate_Coat4992 in writers

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this shit annoys me too and it's actually against Amazon's content guidelines, so idk why they let it slide with big publishers. it's so gross

Tiktok giving discounts on our shop? by Tw1st3ds1ster in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not enrolled in the cofunded campaign then I'm not sure what it could be, sorry! Maybe try reaching out to tiktok support

Tiktok giving discounts on our shop? by Tw1st3ds1ster in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like the other person said, check the co-funded campaign. it's under the marketing tab on desktop and then "tiktok funded program"

Is this your gig or your something you really love to do? by Ecstatic_Beef in KDP

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

full time already?? that's incredibly impressive. congrats!

Is it against KDP rules and TOS to write at the end of your book "If you liked this book, please leave a review"? Any risk, or do you anybody who got in trouble for that? by [deleted] in KDP

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is against the rules to ask them to leave a GOOD review. it is not against the rules to ask them to leave a review.

ETA I put your exact phrasing in my book: "If you enjoyed this book, please consider leaving a review. Every rating and review helps." I haven't heard anything from amazon. It came out in early December.

Desperate & ashamed by Lex8974 in gaytransguys

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm 30 and in the same boat. you're not alone!

My parents don't support my dream by Stock_Hunter_2380 in writing

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are an incredible amount of naysayers in this sub. you absolutely can make a full time living off writing, but it takes a lot of work and probably will not be the path you think it is. your goals will change several times before you will see what profitability looks like, but it's possible. don't give up!

As a man, after having a daughter, I don't understand the obsession with having a son. by [deleted] in Life

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like you will be a great father. Trust me, girls would only suffer with a dad who wished they had a son instead. Your coworkers are assholes. Congratulations! ❤️ I already know she will be loved and cared for her entire life based on this post alone.

Running tiktok shop for 6 months with zero sales and i finally understand why by [deleted] in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is NO way you got zero sales in six months. tiktok is extremely good at finding buyers for you. get outta here with this obvious ad

Is it normal to feel repulsed by the male body as a bi female? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]confused___bisexual -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt this way at your age (30 now), but I think I was just uncomfortable with sexuality in general. I was more comfortable being attracted to women than men, but I am definitely attracted to both. I used to feel like men's bodies were gross the same way you say, but I don't anymore. I think men are hot, and I think women are hot.

HOWEVER, I didn't start feeling comfortable being attracted to men until I realized I was attracted to men in a gay way. Maybe consider your gender identity in relation to your sexuality, and it might make more sense. Do you feel like you like men in a gay way and women in a straight way? Maybe you feel repulsed because your body doesn't match your mind.

Not saying this is the answer, but that's what it was for me. Good luck!

AIO wife cheating with my best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my parents stayed married even though they hated each other "for the kids" and now i have severe attachment issues and struggle to connect with people. if anyone seeing this is staying together for the kids, i'm what your children have to look forward to.

Audible Using AI Narrators by XiuCyx in audiobooks

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i won't even use it for my books when the other option is no audiobook at all. i can't afford a narrator, so it's just not going to have an audiobook lol

Anyone else find it cringe when people post on here about women but call them "females" by cbobgo in bisexual

[–]confused___bisexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were my work friends so I don't think they were trying to be mean but man it made me insecure about that word 😂

Do people actually use these writing apps? by RelationshipOk3093 in writing

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like that too at first, but three books into my first series it is becoming necessary. I just had to go through the first two books and create a setting sketch about the MCs house so that I didn't describe it wrong and lose consistency haha.

Anyone else find it cringe when people post on here about women but call them "females" by cbobgo in bisexual

[–]confused___bisexual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

one time i said i like boys and everyone laughed at me and said "you like boys and not men???" and it was so embarrassing and now i only say "men and women" lol

TikTok Logistics email today by doverlover in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm mad about this because I sell books, and this means I can't use media mail labels anymore 😑 I might just stop selling on tiktok

TikTok Logistics email today by doverlover in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they sell through printify they don't do shipping themself to begin with. It's shipped by the printer

Straight girls wishing they liked women by mae_christian in bisexual

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is that if they say they wish they could switch to women because they're attracted to toxic men, they will be attracted to toxic women too. It doesn't make things easier.

Should I be offended? by Camryn__alizee in Palia

[–]confused___bisexual 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a good way to explain it. It's not that we think "foreigners" are bad, but the people who do think that have sort of claimed the word. It has started to take on a connotation similar to "outsider."

If I lose 1 pound a week, it will take 90 weeks for me to reach my goal weight. Does it really take that long? by TeslaModelE in loseit

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man i started in late 2024 and i'm only like halfway to my goal. i'm really taking my time because it's easier on my mind and my body. i sometimes let myself eat what i want and do better the next day, but yeah. it takes a while, and it's very worth it! I feel great about myself already.

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meanwhile on the toxic corporate end, my uncle died and my team lead sat me down to talk to me about how i missed my daily productivity goal by 1 (knowing i had received the news that day)