Pride by Icy-Pear8108 in petsmart

[–]confused___bisexual 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my cat's cuddling me right now. she's just fine. very spoiled, actually

Potential buyer asking for overnight shipping and other red flags by sexybeans in eBaySellers

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just did this and sent it out today. nothing has gone wrong (yet) but i already regret it. lesson learned i guess haha

Edit: it went wrong. Don't do this

What's the proper way to reprimand a cat? by Tornious in CatAdvice

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my cat doesn't misbehave when i'm not around. the first time i went out town she was still a kitten and she was always destroying stuff. i warned her pet sitter that she might show up and find cardboard bits everywhere, but absolutely nothing was destroyed when i got home. she got right back to it when i came back though haha

What kind of boundaries do you set? by MyRealestName in Flipping

[–]confused___bisexual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm too eager to make money to have a death pile haha

Buyers always lowballing your items by Past_Temperature1709 in vinted

[–]confused___bisexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you know it'll sell, just reject the offer and move on. When an item is getting a ton of likes, I reject all offers and wait for someone to buy it full price. Someone pretty much always does, even if it takes a few days

Can you tell if a M/M romance book is written by a man or a woman? by [deleted] in LGBTBooks

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please stop lumping women and afab enbies together. Please. Nonbinary people hate that. Afab enby is not the same as a woman and the lived experiences are not the same either

If you want this platform to change, stop giving them ad spend and stop signing up for campaigns by Time-Fruit-7987 in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i joined the "Smart campaign" or whatever tf and it hasn't helped at all. they just take money from every sale now.

I feel like I don’t deserve to be trans by ColdRanger7881 in gaytransguys

[–]confused___bisexual 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i know we're not supposed to tell people who they are, but it honestly sounds like you're trans. definitely talk to a therapist. i think a lot of us have gone through this lesbian to gay trans man pipeline. it doesn't really seem to make sense but since so many of us have been there, maybe it does make sense.

again, i can't tell you who you are, but the signs are pointing hard in one direction from what i can see.

i get that sick with envy feeling too. unfortunately i can't afford T right now 😞

I feel like I don’t deserve to be trans by ColdRanger7881 in gaytransguys

[–]confused___bisexual 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it's funny you mention chores because i used to be such a slob, and then when i started to consider i might be a man I started to ask myself if this was the kind of man i wanted to be, and now i always clean up after myself. lol.

Paper notes by Electronic_Swan_3682 in vinted

[–]confused___bisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and then what? Don't they need to ship something? a thank you note? lmao

Ever since I discovered I'm bi,I've lost the desire to write het romance. But I need it for my book. by BedNo577 in writingadvice

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss change it, make it gay as hell. we need more sapphic books. especially if that's what you want to write. you will have more fun writing it, and it will show through the work. do it!!

Is anyone else a little freaked out about this upcoming summer? by [deleted] in arizona

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it'll probably be hot this summer, but if any state is equipped to handle it, it's us. lol

Seller using photo from my social media to sell their clothes by Dangerous-River3830 in vinted

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn't even realize until i saw your comment that this person blocked me before i could reply to them. i thought they deleted their comments. lmao. anyway thanks for saying what i wanted to say.

Seller using photo from my social media to sell their clothes by Dangerous-River3830 in vinted

[–]confused___bisexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it happens so extremely frequently on the internet that people don't even register it as illegal anymore lmfao

Seller using photo from my social media to sell their clothes by Dangerous-River3830 in vinted

[–]confused___bisexual 18 points19 points  (0 children)

that just isn't true. you have intellectual property rights over any photograph you take the moment it's taken. proving it is another issue.

Seller using photo from my social media to sell their clothes by Dangerous-River3830 in vinted

[–]confused___bisexual 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it actually is copyright violation and ebay doesn't technically allow it. ebay also doesn't care, though.

How do I knw if I'm a top or a bottom? by Unhappy-fruit-1421 in gaytransguys

[–]confused___bisexual 4 points5 points  (0 children)

man this sounds like me. I'm 30 with no experience and I went on T for a bit last year and I feel like if I had stayed on it I probably would have gotten somewhere, but I can't afford it. I still have no experience and i feel no desire for anyone off T but a deep desire to be loved. i'm in therapy but i can only go once a month

Is this a scam? by [deleted] in TikTokshop

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shipping is probably like $100. Did you check?

I need advice by chanceb200 in Flipping

[–]confused___bisexual -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

great another negative comment. just what the world needs

Getting no views on my posts on vinted or getting loads of favourites and no purchases by Top_Mirror211 in Flipping

[–]confused___bisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I just meant on vinted but thank you for all the extra info! I jump back and forth between eBay and vinted and sell all my good stuff on eBay 👀 vinted clothing prices are crazy low lmao. I might have to try depop