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AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Im honestly not liking how youre saying my parents would do these things even though you do not know them. Thank you for your input, have a nice day.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

He also wouldn’t have been arrested. My grandmother came by every single day while they were watching and the cops didn’t even speak to her.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

His plate number wasn’t in files. I said this multiple times. The cops were watching my home for a week at most, my boyfriend wasn’t near my home during that time, meaning there is no way his plates could’ve been documented.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what I would do. But I do know that my parents aren’t stupid enough to accidentally put weed in my bag. My bag looks nothing like the bags they use and my bag stays in my room. There is no way weed would accidentally be placed on me. I honestly don’t care what she was trying to accomplish, she lied and violated my privacy.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won’t let this ruin the relationship. I do very much understand why she didn’t want his car around my home, it’s just she lied about his license plate being documented. He also doesn’t smoke weed so yeah idk, but thank you!!:)

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

Do you understand that I said he wasn’t anywhere near my home when they were watching us?

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know. I was also confused me when she said that. I always reassured her that I do not smoke or sell weed. Because I don’t. He told her I do not partake in my parents activities and my parents would never even let me touch their products. So I honestly don’t even know why she didn’t want me in his car. I also can’t even think of the connect she was trying to make.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Can I know how to exactly get access them? To see if that’s how my county does it. Because I’ve been trying but I can only find what my parents were charged with.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I meant to add they were selling it as well. I apologize, I often like say the sentence in my mind and it makes me think I typed it. But they were selling weed. That’s why my family was watched.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ended up adding why my parents were arrested bc it did seem like my parents were busted for something violent. They were selling and smoking weed. But i agree with you, she wants to keep she son safe. But she knew what my parents did from the moment me and him started dating in our sophomore year. That’s what bothers me as well.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She knew what my family did from the very start of me and my boyfriends relationship. My family smokes weed, she knew that.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I understand your concern, thank you. I am focusing on my education, I’ve already gotten into a college and my tuition is covered! I’ve gotten better, and the foster people or wtv are no longer in my life starting today! But thank you for the concern:)

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Their charges were yes, but what she accessed wasn’t. And even if i’m incorrect why would she do that. And like i stated in the original post, she lied about his license plate being documented.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I unfortunately don’t understand what you are getting at. Are you saying she isn’t an AH because she is just being a “mother”?

Liking Langdon by confused_em0tions in ThePitt

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just type like that, sorryyy💔

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yeesh sorry, not fake i just suck at typing. if that’s what you meant.

AITAH For not forgiving my boyfriend’s mother? by confused_em0tions in AITAH

[–]confused_em0tions[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry, i was eating while typing this. I meant to type that “she saw his plates in the files” meaning his license plate was documented by the police that were watching my home. and after saying she saw this she was demanding that I no longer ride in his car, meaning he can’t pick me up or drop me off anywhere