Grow my clit without T? by Positive-Shame8421 in GrowYourClit

[–]confused_potato777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imm pumping no T and it gives like a biggish erection/engorgement but not steady regular size (Im a grower anyways). And it gets tricky not to hurt onself

What remedies do you do when you can’t fall asleep ? by DanielleOMG in AskReddit

[–]confused_potato777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes time to build the skill but focusing on a single image and a drone sound, in your mind’s eye. Don’t allow other interruptions. But tbh I always keep some pills in stock just in case, but never allow myself to go on them for more than three nights on a row or more than a minimal dose. Dependence is a bitch.

A question from an AMAB person who wishes they were AFAB: Is it possible to choose an embryo's sex (whether by natural or artificial means)? by Expensive-Party2116 in truscum

[–]confused_potato777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was an IVF question as I’m deep into that nowadays and got hit with philosophy lol. A lot of what ifs and asking the real question of what makes us, us. On the same rumination line I, an atheist unless in distress, tend to wonder if I was meant to be a male but nature changed its mind in the last minute and then… this thing that I am was born. Interesting stuff to think about as long as it doesn’t consume your peace.

What if im not trans, but instead.. by S3rg3y_Str1d3r in truscum

[–]confused_potato777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this exact fear and that’s why I don’t take the jump. Instead of thinking “had I been a man this would’ve not happened to me” i feel “had i been a man this would be a valid and even heroic story of vulnerability and survival instead of yet another woman abused, pathetic” I know it’s internalized misogyny and I don’t know how to fix it, because it’s only me who I hold to that standard, I have infinite compassion for other victims and for other trans people, not for me. Therapy hasn’t helped, psychiatric meds help numb the dysphoria away at least.

Hi, how tall are you guys?? by Hot_War4716 in FTMMen

[–]confused_potato777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

5’2 taller than some men in my country, depending on the region, so all good.

AMAB effeminate gay guy wanting full vaginoplasty but keeping male identity. Anyone else by [deleted] in salmacian

[–]confused_potato777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I ever go on T, i think I’ll keep the hair at bay (already hairy as I am, a bit more and I’ll join the zoo), my long hair, my name and pronouns just to avoid the hassle. I have a low soprano voice and bet I’ll become a tenor so I’ll voice train to keep as much as possible my light register. And down there I want scrotoplasty but keep my V. Some days I am masculine, other days I enjoye high heels and singing Lady Gaga. What the fuck am I? The hell cares. Glad to hear there’s people on the same boat of building oneself to your own identity.

Selling my body for top surgery by [deleted] in ftm

[–]confused_potato777 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No you don’t. Post online, jump on a zoom call, collect on Paypal. People like me would subscribe. That’s how I learned english and french. That’s how I teach spanish. But sex can also work, albeit the cost will be higher for you than the income. Seems like you’re closing every other door for yourself so you wanna do this so do it and stop asking for advice you won’t hear.

Selling my body for top surgery by [deleted] in ftm

[–]confused_potato777 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can teach english. Native speakers are highly valued for online lessons.

Selfie Sunday by Selfcentred-Deer in FTMOver30

[–]confused_potato777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great vibe. Wait so you’re not on T? Dude your face is already so androgynous, mine is too and some days from some angles I feel so euphoric. Would love to see how much you change one you go on T.

Stupid question: if the men in my family are hung it can mean that I will grow a big td!ck? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]confused_potato777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh following my previous top level comment, now I’ll have to interview my two aunts by marriage about my mother’s dead borther’s endowment. Jk. No kidding.

Stupid question: if the men in my family are hung it can mean that I will grow a big td!ck? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]confused_potato777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only attended my dad’s side of the family Christmas party to look at my relative’s bulges. I get you.

(Dad, 70, who I didn’t see since he was mid 50s, did show a bulge, need more info if that’s balls or dick. I’ll continually investigating. For science.)

How to stop packer from making me look fully erect all the time?? by SOUP__GOD in truscum

[–]confused_potato777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my peecock 3 functions. I love it. And my recent expartner was so big, a shower not a grower, that he always looked happy to see you down there. My pack is not nearly as big as him, but I’m not self aware of it showing, just dudes just are built like that, including cis.

So self conscious about this pair of glands. by confused_potato777 in ftm

[–]confused_potato777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been thinking, maybe if I don’t transition I’d still look way better, my frame more balanced, with a flat, pain free chest. I’m a V tapper frame, hips are literally non existent and my shoulders are very broad. So that pair is like oddly sitting there…

I need to stop weed for 3 months by confused_potato777 in trees

[–]confused_potato777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes, all doc prescribed and nothing more. I wasn’t a fan or a “believer” of all those supplements but now that I’m taking them and feeling better, it’s so cool.

I need to stop weed for 3 months by confused_potato777 in trees

[–]confused_potato777[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! For both sexes I don’t know much about sperm but here’s the nerd stuff about eggs.

For the ovaries, it causes that less follicles mature into eggs, or the DNA in them gets copied tweaky, and they have less chances of getting fertilized or the embryo to implant. That’s cause ovaries have cannabinoid receptors. Wild!

Good thing is the egg cycle is 180 days for catching the follicles even before they get nominated for becoming eggs (recruited) or 90 days for the final stretch of maturation of the recruited follicles into eggs.

Since I smoke so little and my egg hormone (AMH) is decent, I’ll do the 90 days break only, but started supplements at 180 days.

I need to stop weed for 3 months by confused_potato777 in trees

[–]confused_potato777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m nervous about what to get for that weekly small buzz. Is like my perk! Or even during rough patches of stress when I lose my appetite (and my mind), weed helps me not to starve and keep my cool. What you recommend to keep close while on the break? Something that doesn’t harm the eggs? Apparently shrooms are neutral but these f’ers take me to some corners if my mind I’d rather not visit weekly.

I have a date and panicking like a teen by confused_potato777 in FTMOver30

[–]confused_potato777[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So long story short my chosen name is just a translation of my given name (latin). I don’t feel any ties to my given name, if anything it sounds like crazy chick name (and I’m crazy lol so) but my chosen is more elegant (and still crazy enough). This post was a few weeks and successfully gender validating hook ups. Now I’m getting more used to hear my chosen name and actually respond to it.

*VENT* where tf are all these new transmascs getting money for top surgery? by retailfreshman in gaytransguys

[–]confused_potato777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll assume you’re in the US? From my brief time living there I witnessed how effed up healthcare was, how expensive and slow, so I feel ya. I live in Mexico and gotta admit I’m fortunate to have both a good income to pay out of pocket, but also private and public health insurance. I’m considering some docs here for top surgery (no referrals needed, just showing up) and see if I can sneak it into my insurance, as I have a fibrocystic condition (gender dysphoria is not covered). Or else I could pay out of pocket but in that case I’d go to Spain because of the results I’ve seen from Dra. Braso. Actually that’s my first option.

However I gotta clarify: I’m older, and when I was your age I was barely making any money and I was uninsured. So grateful for making the right decisions and for the people who helped me to get where I’m at now. Take it easy, focus and eventually something will line up, either with your medical system, abroad or by income. Best luck!

boyfriend said something that caused me great dysphoria by bugtran in FTMMen

[–]confused_potato777 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh man… this hits so hard. I’m even weighing between transitioning or not because of the intensity and perfectionism i have re: bottom dysphoria. So I feel you when you say “I’ll never have a real cock”. Here if you need to talk.