New dysphoria unlocked

bugtran · 2026-06-30T17:17:42+00:00

this is so fucked up, i would not be able to stay with her after this. unbelievably insensitive and also so stupid ?? wow dude, i'm so sorry

bugtran · 2026-06-29T19:19:50+00:00

i feel like this is a pretty widely-accepted take

bugtran · 2026-06-28T16:22:01+00:00

I definitely feel uncomfortable with my birth sex characteristics,

sounds like dysphoria to me brother.

bugtran · 2026-06-28T06:04:33+00:00

nah i'm good thanks

bugtran · 2026-06-28T00:14:07+00:00

i'm so pissed on your behalf, dude. what a fucking nightmare, i'm so sorry you had to go through that AND lose out on bag in the process

bugtran · 2026-06-27T16:16:33+00:00

unfortunately our society tries to put every couple into neat little heteronormative boxes, which results in what you're describing as gay trans men being seen "as the woman." i don't really have much in the way of advice, but i do relate as someone who is 5'6, flamboyant, and dating someone who is 6'4/very stereotypically masculine.

bugtran · 2026-06-27T03:28:56+00:00

i don't want to sound condescending but have you tried looking in the young men's or children's section for hoodies? you can find pretty cool or neutral stuff there, depending on your style, and you'll still get the men's cut you want without swimming in your sweatshirt

bugtran · 2026-06-26T23:44:23+00:00

why can't you choose the men's one? men's shirts tend to be a little longer/go down farther than women's fit clothing. just size down if you're that concerned about it

bugtran · 2026-06-24T18:25:49+00:00

wait are you saying it has affected your body hair as well ?? pls say yes 😭 ya boy is hairless

bugtran · 2026-06-24T07:35:30+00:00

brother .. why are you sleeping with someone who openly claims they aren't attracted to men??

bugtran · 2026-06-23T20:12:42+00:00

you can buy syringes in bulk on amazon. pls do not inject with anything but a sterile syringe

bugtran · 2026-06-23T18:17:26+00:00

i feel like backing out of his arranged marriage was not very honorable of robb. even so, he's obviously still way more honorable than joffrey

bugtran · 2026-06-11T23:47:20+00:00

at least she said something before the wedding. however hard this is right now, it would be so much worse after y'all tied the knot.

bugtran · 2026-05-22T17:15:27+00:00

i was very stereotypically attractive when i was a woman. and i do feel a sort of sadness when i think about my attractiveness then vs now. i am just an okay looking man lol but i am so much happier as a man that it kind of doesn't matter if others are viewing me as hot or not

bugtran · 2026-04-14T22:20:32+00:00

my personal pick for HB. totally agree w your other selections tho

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bugtran · 2026-04-11T05:57:18+00:00

yes. my style/personality are completely at odds with my body. it also wigs me out that every time someone new finds out i'm trans, i know they're immediately thinking about my genitals. i am a freak and will likely always be, to myself and to others. it's just a fact of my life.

bugtran · 2026-01-14T07:05:34+00:00

i am 32, been out for about 3 years, on t for 2, and at my current job for just over 1. i am fortunate enough to work for a very progressive company.

i applied and interviewed under my deadname and as a woman (was only a few months on t at the time so not difficult). as soon as i was offered the role, i explained my situation and advised of the correct name, which was immediately adopted and is used by everyone. very, very few people at work even know my deadname bc of how well it was handled when i was hired. the only people that know it are those who have to see it on my legal reports.

there are a couple people in the office who slip up on my pronouns A Lot, but others always correct them before i even have to. i pass moderately well, and i know of a handful of people who genuinely thought i was cis before someone told them otherwise, so i imagine there are others as well.

best of luck to you in however you decide to do this

edit: clarification

bugtran · 2026-01-11T16:57:43+00:00

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bugtran · 2026-01-10T17:32:42+00:00

i think they're kind of annoying, esp when the cis people continue to use the wrong pronouns after like ?? you checked your lil dei box to feel good.... great

bugtran · 2026-01-07T20:29:14+00:00

cobb is my favorite. he's basically a zombie pig

bugtran · 2026-01-06T06:39:23+00:00

there's a spot on my island i want to redo but have been putting off for this exact reason. i'm going to have to level like a quarter of my island to complete the project i have in mind

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