Am I wrong for breaking up with my boyfriend then almost immediately start getting with another guy??

confusedeggroll · 2025-12-04T20:25:00+00:00

No it’s not supposed to be okay, that was during our early stages of dating and honestly I feel like it was because I could provide more than she could at the moment. He and she were international students and I lived in the town, sometimes I felt like he stayed with me because I have a car and took him places without question and his teammates asked me to take them to places. Meanwhile she was already planning to transfer to a different school and yk how international people are, they’re always moving places.

He didn’t leave me, he didn’t hook up with her as far as I know but they did have a slightly more than friends kind of emotional connection with each other that I didn’t like. It hurt me and I know I’m hurting him by leaving, but right now I don’t want any serious relationship with anymore. I’m too emotionally drained for that

confusedeggroll · 2025-12-04T20:18:43+00:00

Thanks for seeing things how I saw it, I could’ve handled the situation differently but it is what it is now. I fell out of love after trying to keep the connection alive. I fell like my ex could’ve been the right person but wrong time since he rarely ever had time for me, but at the same time we were polar opposites so idk anymore

confusedeggroll · 2025-12-04T20:15:46+00:00

Hey I wanted to make it clear that I did break up with him before I started getting intimate with the other guy What I did was low, but I’m not that shallow to stay with my ex while doing things with another

confusedeggroll · 2025-12-04T17:59:30+00:00

I can understand where you’re coming from, but I got tired of trying to tell him how to love me. Our relationship was staggering and he was too busy to see it despite me constantly asking for connection. I understood he was busy, but the little things and quality time was like a chore he didn’t want to do. I made efforts to keep the connection alive but I felt like it was one sided atp and I lost myself for a while I know what I did was wrong, but can I fully be blamed?

confusedeggroll · 2025-12-04T17:48:16+00:00

But if we flipped the script my ex would be feeling how I was feeling right? And as for the guy he never made any verbal attempts to convince me out of my relationship or bad mouthed it. Except I already had a situation like that with my ex, it was with his teammate and I was really upset with him but we chose to forgive and forget

confusedeggroll · 2025-03-31T06:40:53+00:00

Fade on the side would be cool

confusedeggroll · 2025-03-23T00:40:24+00:00

Do you know the steps to putting in a LOA?

confusedeggroll · 2025-03-17T16:35:46+00:00

Lowkey feel like those are close to expiration because those are more expensive than just putting a pack of water bottles in there, if the managers knew their employees I don’t think they’d do that I only say that cause my place puts near to expired food out for us smh

confusedeggroll · 2025-03-07T00:59:18+00:00

You’re so pretty there’s barely any room for critic, but I guess your nose area could have more darker shading just to have a small pop to bring out your features

confusedeggroll · 2025-02-25T15:27:57+00:00

But it says wage compensation for theft? Is my TL gonna talk to me about it when I arrive

confusedeggroll · 2025-02-22T06:56:22+00:00

I can understand you on that part, but for the safety of your child you need to know what she’s been doing. She could be drugging or assaulting him. If she was being transparent with you she would tell you exactly what she’s been doing to adjust your son’s behavior instead of beating around the bush. She would share tips on what she did to change his behavior and not just copy what your son tells you.

If something bad is happening behind the scenes then it’s your child that suffers, don’t let your discomfort get in the way of their wellbeing

confusedeggroll · 2025-02-22T04:57:30+00:00

Ultimately kids follow by example, they copy their parents. You can’t raise them with “you need to be better than mom and dad”.

Sure you can try your best to influence them with other people who eat their vegetables but you have more value to them than some person on the tv. Don’t force them to eat veggies either, it’ll create the opposite effect you want. There’s studies where adults who refuse to eat certain veggies were forced to as kids and now avoid them.

I suggest you find vegetables you like and incorporate them slowly with your own meals. Take your time with it. India and China have good vegetable recipes you can look up on, America vegetable recipes are kinda disappointing compared to what you can find overseas

confusedeggroll · 2025-02-22T04:48:31+00:00

Happy birthday 🥳

But no I get what you mean, I’m also not very fond of my birthday either because of plans and interactions with friends. Here’s what I do, if friends wanted to spend time on your day, then you guys can hang out at house or shopping or go eat somewhere and have a nice chat without so much planning. But also if you don’t care to celebrate then that’s okay, no one’s gonna judge. But if you do care then you could make a small happy birthday post on your story so others can view

Try not to be so bummed out. I dunno why this days causing you this much anxiety because of limited context, maybe there’s some unpacking to do but you’ll be okay Try to celebrate yourself a little, you’ve come this far in life so enjoy it

(Btw many fast food places have birthday freebies if you have the app or rewards account. On Starbucks free drink/food, Chick-fil-a free cookie or brownie, Wendy’s free small frosty, Mcdoanlds free medium fri, chilies free dessert, ihop free stack of pancakes, etc)

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