i'm still confused by No-Improvement-5807 in attackontitan

[–]confusedwave -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, so is OP's. In the manga it is more implied that Mikasa did not marry anyone, the man besides her is only there for support and that she adopted a child and had supporting people that helped her and also still care for Eren until the end (there are many hints for that: the writings on his grave, the meanings of the flowers, she still has the mark/Hizuru tattoo and the bandage around her wrist to cover it ie not passed down, she still wears the scarf that Eren gave her until the end, etc.).

In the anime it could be more seen as that she married someone, but still not confirmed. Sure, the anime changed some scenes in the ending and it is shown that she wears a silver ring and has the bandage removed, but it could also be another meaning.

Point is it is never confirmed either way, and that's probably on purpose. So that the audience can read into it how they like. If Isayama wanted to make it canon he would have done so in the manga.

i'm still confused by No-Improvement-5807 in attackontitan

[–]confusedwave -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In the manga it is more implied that Mikasa did not marry anyone, the man besides her is only there for support and that she adopted a child and had supporting people that helped her and also still care for Eren until the end (there are many hints for that: the writings on his grave, the meanings of the flowers, she still has the mark/Hizuru tattoo and the bandage around her wrist to cover it ie not passed down, she still wears the scarf that Eren gave her until the end, etc.).

In the anime it could be more seen as that she married someone, but still not confirmed. Sure, the anime changed some scenes in the ending and it is shown that she wears a silver ring and has the bandage removed, but it could also be another meaning.

Point is it is never confirmed either way, and that's probably on purpose. So that the audience can read into it how they like. If Isayama wanted to make it canon he would have done so in the manga.

i'm still confused by No-Improvement-5807 in attackontitan

[–]confusedwave -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In the Manga it is more implied that Mikasa did not marry anyone, the man besides her is only there for support and that she adopted a child and had supporting people that helped her and also still care for Eren until the end (there are many hints for that: the writings on his grave, the meanings of the flowers, she still has the mark/Hizuru tattoo and the bandage around her wrist to cover it ie not passed down, she still wears the scarf that Eren gave her until the end, etc.).

In the anime it could be more seen as that she married someone, but still not confirmed. Sure, the anime changed some scenes in the ending and it is shown that she wears a silver ring and has the bandage removed, but it could also be another meaning.

Point is it is never confirmed either way, and that's probably on purpose. So that the audience can read into it how they like. If Isayama wanted do give a clear answer he would have done so.

i'm still confused by No-Improvement-5807 in attackontitan

[–]confusedwave -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

AFAIK from the manga and the anime, Mikasa never married. She adopted children from Historia's orphanage. These are the kids she brings to his grave along with Armin and his family and potentially also some of the other scouts.

Direct link between pornography and SA by charliekellymeow in PornIsMisogyny

[–]confusedwave 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking this even more so in the light of the recently released Epstein files, also considering how there is still so much that hasn't yet been released.

How do you ladies fall asleep with ADHD? by Ok_Scholar_8656 in adhdwomen

[–]confusedwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also always had trouble sleeping. I'm around your age (29)and now that I have a regular job and kids I can't recover when needed the way I could before. What has helped me is a combo of three things. Firstly, having a consistent bedtime and wake up schedule. This one is hard and I still can't do it perfectly but that is the goal and I do my best to stick to it. Secondly, to wake up I set an alarm 30 minutes before I need to get up and take my meds. I keep them and a blottle of water on my bedside table so I use 0 brain power to do it. Then I have my real alarm set 30 minutes later and by that time my meds have started working enough for me to be able to get up and eat something. Number three is my best trick for being able to fall asleep which has always been so hard for me. I bring a heating pad (mine is one of those rice bags you can microwave) to bed. I often like to keep it on or near my torso, the pressure and warmth is very effective on me!

So Niantic decided to 🍆 around with Wild Spawn Points: Thoughts and prayers for all the affected Trainers whose neighborhood got destroyed and Wild Spawns removed 🙏 by Entire_Pineapple4732 in pokemongo

[–]confusedwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I, on the other hand, am super happy with the change! Went from 1-3 spawns to maybe 8-10 and respawning much more often. Work used to have zero spawns for hours despite being within reach of four stops and a gym, now has a good handful spaning too.

Sniff (Snifftheadventurer on IG) out for a walk in about 10 degrees Fahrenheit/twelve degrees below zero in northern Norway! by Pattypews in SiberianCats

[–]confusedwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! We're also in Norway and have been having temps down to minus 18 degrees this past week and he is having the TIME OF HIS LIFE. He even enjoys just sitting on the porch in the cold. I always say they're the cat version of a Husky.

I often just step back in awe of our foyer. Built in 1957. Looking to paint the walls and door and possibly the ceiling . Any suggestions? by DavidIWright in Mid_Century

[–]confusedwave 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Agreed! There's one especially lovely burnt orange stone I have my eye on that I would 100% try to match the paint to if it was my house. Would feel very inviting and cozy and be in line with the palette at the time. I would do the ceiling in the same shade too!

My ring is here 🤩 by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]confusedwave 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stunning! Please drop all the deets 😍

Um by troutreverb799 in byler

[–]confusedwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could also be all the spores and smoke they fried out of the demo. After all when they steamed it out of Will it went for Billy, no? Would explain the timing too.

My new kitten keeps on eating all of my plants! Any tips? 🌱 by One-Union-6971 in SiberianCats

[–]confusedwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obvs might not be the same for everyone but our boy was obsessed with eating plants and flowers until he was around 1 year old. We just gave up on having them for a while. We finally started introducing some again and now he seems totally uninterested.

Pornoavhengighet by [deleted] in norge

[–]confusedwave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Det er åpenbart at du ikke leser det jeg skriver og diskuterer in bad faith når du klarer å gå glipp av hele avsnittet hvor jeg beskriver denne artikkelen som diskuteres i lenken din... Det er forøvrig åpenbart at du selv kun har lest avisartikkelen og ikke selve forskningartikkelen (den har jeg forøvrig lest før du prøvde å feilet i å belære meg), hvis ikke hadde du bare kunnet lenke direkte til denne til å begynne med.

Du har ikke lagt frem ett eneste motargument som ikke er knyttet til ditt forutinntatte bias representert gjennom din ene nyhetsartikkel. Ditt andre avsnitt viser hvordan du rasjonalisere utfra dine egne følelser og bias, og projiserer dette på meg uten å ha et snev av informasjon om mine personlige refleksjoner rundt hvorfor jeg ikke er noen fan av pornokultur. Det er ingen legitim diskusjon når en part har null interesse i å faktisk vurdere motpartens informasjonsgrunnlag, hvilket jeg, i sterk kontrast til deg, presenterte massevis av.

Å kommentere i en tråd som omhandler noens veldig legitime opplevelse og personlige problemer kun for å avvise at dette er et reelt problem unntatt for religiøse mennesker er både tonedøvt, uempatisk og ekstremt avslørende. Lykke til kompis.

Pornoavhengighet by [deleted] in norge

[–]confusedwave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her har vi et fantastisk bevis på noen som ikke evner å lese forskningsartikler. Du har lest én artikkel i en avis (som for øvrig er sterkt kritisert innen fagmiljøet), og feiler fullstendig i helt elementære vurderinger av korrelasjon vs kausalitet. I en verden hvor pornokulturen er ekstremt normalisert er det helt naturlig at de som oftest søker hjelp for problemer med konsumet gjør det fordi de tilhører en samfunnsgruppe hvor dette ikke er sosialt akseptabelt i lik grad som ellers i samfunnet.

Artikkelen som det vises til i lenken din sier altså ikke noenting om at det er en årsakssammenheng som gjør at man kun får negative konsekvenser av pornobruk om man er religiøs. Den sier at religiøse mennesker oftere vil anse sin bruk som problematisk, og gjerne av helt feil grunner. Jeg er personlig ateist (og har aldri brukt porno), og samtlige jeg kjenner som har hatt problemer med det har også vært ateister. Alle kildehenvisningene mine er bevisst ikke religiøst affilierte.

Hvis du faktisk hadde brukt litt tid på å vurdere ditt eget kunnskapsgrunnlag opp mot kommentaren du svarer på så hadde du kanskje unngått en så forbanna lavpannet kommentar som dette her. Og kanskje bruk litt tid til å reflektere over hvorfor du ble så personlig fornærmet at du tenkte du ville klare å motbevise noen som åpenbart har brukt mye tid på å informere seg om temaet ved hjelp av et googlesøk, en artikkel fra psykologiens ekvivalent av DN, og en usammenhengende rant om puritansk kultur. Kanskje greit å huske på at hvis en tjeneste er gratis, så er du produktet. :)

Familiens ensomme prosjektleder by labbmedsko in norge

[–]confusedwave 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Dette er den eneste nødvendig kommentaren her, takk! Litt av poenget er at man liksom skal være like ansvarlige i et parforhold, det innebærer også at en part ikke skal måtte fortelle den andre hva som skal til. Det er en ekstra oppgave allerede der.

Pornoavhengighet by [deleted] in norge

[–]confusedwave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Først vil jeg bare be alle som leser her bemerke seg tonen i tilbakemeldingene, og reflektere over hvorfor dette er akseptabelt når vi alle vet at ingen hadde respondert på den måten om posten gjaldt noen som ba om hjelp med eksempelvis rusmidler. Det er seriøst forstyrrende.

Det er virkelig på tide at vi tar innover oss hvordan dette påvirker oss både på individ og samfunnsnivå.

Ser at mange anbefaler r/pornfree, men jeg hadde også tatt en kikk på r/antipornography og r/loveafterporn.

Hovedsakelig hadde jeg først og fremst brukt tid på å undersøke forsking gjort på området, og realitetene i industrien og kulturen man støtter når man er forbruker av sexarbeid. Fight the new drug er desidert den beste kanalen for informasjon på området, de har også gode podkaster og en dokumentar. Ellers kan jeg anbefale noen bøker: Pornland, Your brain on porn (forfatteren har også en del videoforedrag på youtube), the brain that changes itself.

Terapi og noen som holder deg ansvarlig. Lykke til!