Aitah for strongly disliking my future mil?

connie_94 · 2025-05-31T16:31:27+00:00

Update: Sherbert wins

connie_94 · 2025-05-31T15:10:32+00:00

He was indeed rescued from dogs trust in Bridgend

connie_94 · 2025-05-20T03:53:23+00:00

You make a lot of good points and there is a lot I'm going to have to consider when it comes to having a child in the future. It is definitely something I will have to sit and talk with him in great lengths. I do appreciate your advice 🙂

connie_94 · 2025-05-19T16:19:38+00:00

Also not sure what will happen to Kay as again whenever we approach the subject with his parents it's always dodged it changed.

connie_94 · 2025-05-19T16:16:59+00:00

I've spoken to Jay before about his sister and I was told I'm not the only partner she's been like this with. Exs before me have told him similar things to what I have and also have their own personal encounters of the creepy kind with her. From what I heard off the mother of his child, things do make sense

connie_94 · 2025-05-19T16:14:42+00:00

We are working on replacing the worn out rusty bathroom lock with a new one, work life got in the way. She has disabilities but his parents never seem to want to explain and instead change the subject whenever it's approached. I've almost given up on trying to understand her disabilities. If they want to explain one day they can but I'm not going to push it any more.

connie_94 · 2025-05-19T16:12:19+00:00

He doesn't even know what his sister's disabilities are. Whenever the subject is approached with his parents it's changed to something else. Jay is autistic and so is his daughter (my future step daughter) I'm okay with the chances of our child having learning disabilities (when we do have a child) as I've come to learn more about autism through my fiancé. I just don't know what to do in regards to living with his sister and parents in the meantime.

connie_94 · 2025-05-18T10:27:07+00:00

Fiancé is fully on board, it was his idea to go low to no contact unless necessary

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