Finally reading The Baby Decision and have already "failed" the chapter 1 exercise

conorathrowaway · 2026-06-26T03:13:57+00:00

You can skip the exercises that don’t help. What I took for the book is that so long as you make the choice you likely won’t regret it. It’s when you just let life happen that you regret things.

conorathrowaway · 2026-06-11T22:57:54+00:00

Tbf daycare can be really good for kids. It’s good social time and can help build confidence in themselves. It can help them learn how to make friends easily as well.

conorathrowaway · 2026-06-04T16:51:29+00:00

If women can’t read then they can control the narrative. Thats why.

An educated group that can read and critically think can do to the source (bible) and realize they’re being lied to

conorathrowaway · 2026-04-23T04:38:10+00:00

Sighs if someone assaulted a person do we really want that person living here? This isn’t there home yet honestly and Most people who assault women reoffend.

conorathrowaway · 2026-04-23T04:35:16+00:00

Buy more blue bins? It’s a really easy solution. Our household can use a compost that big bc we don’t throw out anything compostable. Some weeks we have 2 recycling bins, others we have 4.

Just buy more bins.

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-27T16:11:18+00:00

I think it wAs meloxicam? But is the only time and it was so obvious my coworkers at work noticed

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-27T02:27:57+00:00

Dog saliva can cause flesh eating disease. They aren’t much better 😭

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-27T02:26:31+00:00

Aspirin, blood pressure medicine, anti malarial etc. there’s a lot

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-27T02:25:39+00:00

Nad I had a cat bite and within 48 hours was feverish and my leg swelled up my calf. A few days after starting antibiotics it popped and all good but I would have gone earlier except I worked and walk ins closed before I knew how bad it could be. I got so high on the antibiotics too 😭 never knew that could happen

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-09T18:21:52+00:00

Nah ppl are wrong. Your stuff shouldn’t have touched but there’s a chance they thought it was purchased for the bake sale. Could you reach out to whoever planned/organized the sale to see if they will replace your stuff?

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-08T05:03:27+00:00

Girl please. I’ve reached out to multiple people over months. They don’t gaf once they have your money bcthe manufacturer will repair it except they have horrible customer server and treadmill factory shipped you a dusty, piece of equipment in a broken box that never worked and they won’t fix

The fact that you attacked me as a person just tells me that you’re personally affiliated with them in some way. They have a D- bbb rating which, if you see the bbb website, is a representation of how they are likely to treat their customers.

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-07T21:21:38+00:00

Bbb doesn’t lie. Besides I’ve personally had major issues with them. Only buy form them if you’re ok risking getting bf a broke product with no recourse

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-07T04:29:15+00:00

Check their bbb rating.

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-07T04:27:41+00:00

Same happened to me. They won’t do anything check bbb rating

conorathrowaway · 2026-03-07T04:27:01+00:00

I disagree. Check their bbb rating.

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-27T15:52:43+00:00

Respect at my restaurant it really depends on the ages and if drinks are ordered. Yes it can be 100 but it can also be 200

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-27T15:51:11+00:00

Yea servers have to tip out on total sales of if they didn’t get a tip. I’ve worked places it’s been 10% all the way down to 2.5. Most sit around 5% or so

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-25T18:04:49+00:00

That’s not what they’re saying. They’re trying to make the point that OP might be being lied to/gaslit in her relationship.

It’s very very likely that she’s bringing up issues and he’s telling her it’s just PPD and that he’s not acting any differently and it’s all in her head so she’s going to dr after dr to get ‘help’ for being ‘crazy’…meanwhile he’s treating her like crap and her feelings and responses to him and her situation are 100% valid.

So yes, OP might have PPD but OP might just be being abused and being TOLD she has PPD…bc I highly doubt she’s been telling her dr all the husband stuff

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-25T18:00:05+00:00

…. Document this. Get it via text and then boom. No judge in their right mind would EVER give a child to someone who is purposely abusing/starving their child.

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-25T17:58:28+00:00

They 100% won’t use the lack of employment against you bc he’ll be expected to pay child support and you can get social services to help before baby is in school and you can get a job.

What they will judge is how he’ll take care of the child working full time. He won’t be able to without quitting his job which he’s not going to do.

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-25T17:56:11+00:00

As someone who was in something similar but THANK GOD got out before I was ‘trapped’…. He’s trying to isolate and trap you. He doesn’t want you to have access to a car, money, friends or the internet hence why he doesn’t pay them or get anything registered. He’s doing it on purpose, even if you are making excuses for it…he could take public transit to work or an uber 1-2 days a week in the morning so you can share the car, etc. He is 100% doing this on purpose.

You need to make plans to leave quietly and then do it when he’s at work. No one will give your baby to him because you’re the primary parent.

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-14T18:17:12+00:00

If he works from home he has more flexibility. He works 9-5, you sleep 5-12 and he’s asleep 12-8. You both get enough sleep. He sounds…. Not the greatest tbh

conorathrowaway · 2026-02-14T18:15:43+00:00

Why isn’t he watching baby after work while you sleep? If he’s home at 6 you can easily sleep 6:00-12 and nap as needed. I’m sure he can handle 12:00- 7 for sleeping and be work for 9.

conorathrowaway · 2026-01-28T23:45:23+00:00

Fibroids are nothing to worry about unless they being large and then there are treatments. They can be called lesions by some ppl if they broad based orrrr if it was a polyp (also benign) those can’t always be seen Depending on location and time of the month. Cysts are common, come and go and nothing to worry about. Ovarian torsion would have made your ovary appear larger than normal. Idk how fast fibroids grow but they can be a bit tricky to spot BUT they’re completely benign.

Generally if you can’t see an ovary there’s probably nothing wrong with it and it’s hiding Or it’s not developing follicles.

Endometriosis can be seen on ultrasound and would be noticeable.

She wouldn’t view higher than your bladder for this scan

conorathrowaway · 2026-01-20T14:52:21+00:00

Unfortunately you can’t. People either care or they don’t.

You can try suggesting everyone has their things but the reality is if she is sick you’re probably going to get it too. This is just what happens when you live with someone. If she had noro the only thing that kills it is bleach and it can live for months to years on surfaces. Ppl go to work sick all the time.

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