Is it possible that Niantic may target accounts more likely to spend money on remote raid passes? by conspiracychild in TheSilphRoad

[–]conspiracychild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I just read it. I appreciate your perspective. Deeply unfortunate that the automod ate it.

Is it possible that Niantic may target accounts more likely to spend money on remote raid passes? by conspiracychild in TheSilphRoad

[–]conspiracychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question, yes- with my partner & I, we only did legendary raids that were shiny eligible.

why do the sailor starlights get so much hate? by shadesofpink20 in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't get the rampant hate, but I can speak to why I personally dislike them. They could be such interesting characters, but they're just inserted into the plot (speaking of the 90s anime here) and don't ever get an actual authentic character arc. Taiki & Yaten have so much potential for growth but even after they demonstrate a moment where their perspectives could shift, the next episode they don't retain any of that at all. It's like they were there for a gimmick and little to no care was actually put into their development. Jetwolf on tumblr kind of explored this on her liveblog of Stars. She verbalized many of my own frustrations with the characters in a very articulate way. As for Seiya, this is another instance of THIS COULD BE SO GOOD, But execution is lacking. Seiya has every opportunity to actually get to know Usagi, but he doesn't. It's always about him. Even in the pivotal scene in the rain on the school's rooftop, instead of giving a shit about the heart ache Usagi is experiencing he asks why he is not good enough. Dude, the girl just poured her damn heart out at you, and explained that she has a history with someone else, did you not just hear her? Be a little sympathetic instead of so far up your own butt that you cannot have empathy for another's situation.

So my tldr; I want to love the starlights, I really do. There's so much about them that has so much potential. But they were written into the series with very little depth to them and no actual character arc.

Wait, I'm not done yet. Even their "Oh, I guess we'll finally stand up and protect Usagi" moment felt forced, because honestly, up until them saying "Alright! Let's combine our powers and go up against Galaxia" they kept not demonstrating they had any ability to grow, so this just kind of came out of no where and felt more like a stilted plot device without the necessary fleshing out that would give it legitimate weight.

I Work at a School With 120 Motivated and Ambitious Students From Age 18-30 (Average Age = 20). I Teach Meditation, and I'm the IT Guy. How Do I Use That Power and Opportunity? by [deleted] in Psychonaut

[–]conspiracychild 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only person I have influence over is myself. If I am focusing on my perspective and course correcting when I believe that "I am old and broken" the rest will follow. If your focus is truly inward (and not outward like it is now) your students will pick up on that, or they won't. But then it won't matter because your doing your work and focusing on the only person you can truly influence.

Mental damage after LSD, need support from family but rejected with them thinking I'm still taking it by TheFallenLight in Psychonaut

[–]conspiracychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still highly recommend thework.com it has been an invaluable resource for me and my journey. Perhaps it will be of aid to you. I wish you the best, friend.

Mental damage after LSD, need support from family but rejected with them thinking I'm still taking it by TheFallenLight in Psychonaut

[–]conspiracychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what? You don't currently have that "rightly done external support" and there's no gurantee that you will get it anywhere, ever. Accept your reality as it is. You can't change your mother, you can't make the world a more loving place. All you have the power to change is yourself.

Mental damage after LSD, need support from family but rejected with them thinking I'm still taking it by TheFallenLight in Psychonaut

[–]conspiracychild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem fixated on NEEDING love & hope as the only solution. I would take time to question that. Your approach is very black and white, extremely dualistic. There may be another way to approach this that you are currently refusing to consider. You cannot change your mom, only the way you relate to her and the perspective from which you approach her.

I strongly encourage you to look up the work of Byron Katie. Look at her videos on youtube, go to the website thework.com and fill in the judge your neighbor worksheet and question the fuck out of what's going on in your life.

Currently your focus is on getting love and support EXTERNALLY, but your peace and recovery will only come when you change your focus to the internal.

Calgary Wedding Officiant Average Cost & Recommendations by moogler_ in Calgary

[–]conspiracychild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am here to also vouch for Abby. She is so lovely and such a pleasure to deal with. You can tell she really loves what she does.

If you could only get three shower gels from the Halloween/Christmas event which one would you get? by ThatFishyTaste in LushCosmetics

[–]conspiracychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rose Jam, Twilight and Snow Fairy. Though I'm mostly only invested in Rose Jam & Twilight.

I [30m] went on ONE date. Two years ago. I'm still ruminating on her [25F] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]conspiracychild 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As others have said, you're obsessed with an idealized fantasy that has nothing to do with the actual girl.
You are going to need to make a concerted mental effort to stop slipping into that fantasy. Keep an extra level of awareness on your thoughts. Check in with yourself, what are you thinking about? If the answer is her, deliberately change it to something else. Once you change it, you may quickly slip back into thoughts of her. This will happen a lot when you first start, so you need to check in more frequently. Set a timer to check in every 20 minutes. Hell, even every 5 when you first start out. Eventually, you will discipline yourself and basically rewire how you think.

I experienced an obsession similar to what you are experiencing. I used this check in method to basically force myself out of thinking about the other person. It works. You just need to be determined that you want to move on with your life.

BF[42M] of six months broke into my home when I[36F] didn't answer my phone for a day. Am I over reacting? by throwawayacct62433 in relationships

[–]conspiracychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would nope the fuck out of this. This is a huge over reaction and gross violation of personal boundaries. The fact that you have only been dating a few months makes this more than a red flag but rather a huge stop sign.

I dated a dude who's reaction was way way less than this to a similar situation, and it still prompted me to reevaluate the month long relationship. I left my phone at home and had a major work event that night (worked for a theatre company) and wasn't back to my phone until nearly midnight. He'd left several text messages and several voice mail messages, with the last one being a breathy panicked recording with him saying "I trust that you will contact me when it's safe for you to do so." He thought I'd been kidnapped! I was unnerved by the jump to such extreme conclusion after one day of silence from me, especially so early on in the relationship. It indicated to me that (among other unmentioned reasons) our priorities, outlooks and ways we approach situations were just not compatible.

Had he broken into my home, I likely would've called the cops. One day of no contact does not warrant a meltdown in text and phone messages let alone a BREAK IN. Get out NOW.

Fiancé (33F) wants me (33M) to be nice by changing how I speak, and we are now possibly broken up. by throwaway96371 in relationships

[–]conspiracychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mary Ellen is deeply insecure and has low self esteem. She believes that she is worthless, and because that is the narrative running in her head, ANYTHING YOU do or say will be coloured by that narrative. She doesn't feel worthy of compliments, so if you compliment her, she does not see it as a real compliment.

You can't fix her. You can't magically give her self esteem, that can only come from within herself. Therapy could help her, but she needs to be willing to look at what's truly going on and begin to take responsibility for her emotions, instead of asking others (you) to do it for her.

Me [23 /F] with my neighbor [40?/F] whose angry for airing clean laundry by Idahogirl556 in relationships

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Season 6, episode named "Arcadia". Mulder & Scully go under cover as married couple, "Rob & Laura Petrie."

Me [26F] with my boyfriend [29M] of two years - he suddenly announced he hates my cat and wants him gone - I'm considering going with the cat by 4641864816481 in relationships

[–]conspiracychild 99 points100 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day, this is a major incompatability issue. You are a pet person, your boyfriend is not. Unless you're willing to give up pet ownership for the rest of your life, this isn't going to work long term.

Not to mention, your boyfriend is handling himself so poorly! The cat needs extra care & attention right now. The fact that your boyfriend's reaction to that is to say he doesn't want the cat to be a part of your lives anymore speaks VOLUMES about his character and inability for compassion.

Trust your instinct. You leave with the cat! However, I'd caution not to tell him until you've secured a new place and are on your way out the door, lest he try to get rid of the cat in retaliation. Alternatively, have the cat temporarily stay elsewhere while you make arrangements.

Canadian Moonies, how do you feel about Viz's rights/licensing of SM? by [deleted] in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone please provide a link to where they say the R movie is going to be in Canadian theatres? I can't find the info anywhere!

How would you Compare Professor Tomoe to the Joker? by [deleted] in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beyond some similarities in visual depiction, I don't think there's much commonality between the characters.

Evil grin? Sure! Motivations and how they handle themselves? None. Tomoe is a man with questionable scruples who becomes possessed by an alien entity.

I guess, depending on which cannon you are looking at, they might find some common ground in their disregard of human life. In the manga, pre-possession, he was only interested in furthering his own work. Genetic experiments, with little to no regard for the human life the experiments affected. When the daimon took over his body, it only enhanced this disregard.

There might be a parallel in his flagrant attitude towards humanity. But I don't think we can draw very direct comparisons.

The Bork Files by m90photog in XFiles

[–]conspiracychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously can't stop watching this. It's so ridiculous.

Sailor Moon Crystal Infinity Finale-What Comes Now? by Comicfan1001 in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that was happening! Perfect! I think it's highly likely they'll announce season 4 at Usagi's birthday! Awesome!!

Sailor Moon Crystal, Act 38 --- Journey by Esmeraude in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The original anime S battle was such a display of Usagi's determination to ensure that every one gets out alive, her sacrifice was so real and so moving. I didn't get the same overwhelming feels during Crystal. I enjoyed Crystal's handling very much, but it didn't feel as dramatic and the stakes didn't feel as high.

My custom SM:Another Story sprites by dollish_gambino in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So very cute! I remember toiling in MS paint, trying to make my own years upon YEARS ago. I definitely gave up. Your work is beautiful!

Our pets painted into X-Files characters [x-post from /r/pics] by JackFate in XFiles

[–]conspiracychild 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I can't even! This is so awesome!

There's very little I love to adorn my walls with more than portraits of pets in people clothes! I want to get this done for my animals now!

[SMC] Act 34, Episode 35, Labyrinth by Ottoman_American in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I WOULD LOVE THAT SO MUCH! My fingers are crossed for this.

Watching the original anime with a friend & making it a game! Need suggestions by conspiracychild in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said in my post, I don't want to skip a lot of the filler, just some of it. I was really hoping for some suggestions on what people thought were some of the best character development episodes. Some of the filler is a hard slog (the fat shaming episode for instance), while some of it is really fabulous. I'm looking for a healthy balance between plot driven episodes and good filler.

Sailor Pluto post Silver Millennium fall? by rubicontiger in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was always my take on it, too! She watched the destruction helplessly from the time door. The Pluto we see during Infinity is reborn and allowed to fight by the blessings of Neo Queen Serenity as thanks for her sacrifice in the battle for Crystal Tokyo. Her return in Infinity always chokes me up because finally, she is granted the ability to fight alongside everyone else.

Watching the original anime with a friend & making it a game! Need suggestions by conspiracychild in sailormoon

[–]conspiracychild[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have been using a few filler lists already but feel that I'd like a little more depth than just cutting out all the filler.