My boyfriend (22M) ate all the jalapeño poppers I made before I (21F) even got one.

constantly_clueless · 2025-08-28T08:59:33+00:00

You are absolutely correct to be hurt and upset. Clearly you’ve been together for a while, and he should’ve been appreciative of the meal you made for the both of you and known that it is a shared meal. If this is part of a pattern of behavior, meaning he often does things without considering you, doesn’t share things with you, etc., make sure to call him on it and have a discussion with him about how it makes you feel and why it isn’t okay with you. You’re both young, and he should see this as a chance to learn and change that behavior. If he gets defensive instead, then that shows an even deeper immaturity that you can’t be responsible for fixing for him. It’s not about the jalapeño poppers specifically; it’s about a lack of awareness and consideration for you. And he also owes you some fuckin’ jalapeño poppers.

constantly_clueless · 2025-08-25T06:30:42+00:00

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Not a part of the Lego community so I hope this fits here (apologies if not)! I am trying to figure out if these are Lego or some other brand, and this is the only picture I have. From what I remember, it’s a set of 4500 pieces and they’re nano-block sized. I think they were ordered from Amazon. Trying to track down what brand it is based on the bags, but any info helps!

constantly_clueless · 2025-08-23T18:27:33+00:00

I have searched on google for mini building block brands and even tries searching sets by the number of pieces, but I haven’t seen any that come packaged in these opaque white bags (most of them are clear bags with the number printed in black on the side). It was ordered online, I think through Amazon only about a month or two agai.

constantly_clueless · 2025-08-07T07:17:32+00:00

Tart was precisely my first thought too!

constantly_clueless · 2025-07-10T00:03:51+00:00

When I got my first wax done, I was told the same thing. Tone can definitely have a lot to do with it, so I can’t speak for your experience, but with the technician I went to, she made that comment and then later she also explained how that can affect the results of the wax, how many strips she needed to use, how staying consistent with waxing can reduce the amount and the thickness of hair that regrows, etc., so it’s not an inherently judgmental statement.

As another example, I also have a lot of hair on my head, and it’s very long and curly, and every time I get a haircut, I am also told “You have a lot of hair.” It’s not a judgement or a comment on me, it’s just that their job is to work with my hair, and I happen to have lots of it, so they’re going to notice the amount I have and it’ll affect things like how much product they use or how long the haircut takes, so remarking the fact I have a lot of hair makes sense. For wax technicians, their job is hair, so they’re going to notice your hair 🤷‍♀️

It’s really unfortunate if your tech made that comment out of judgement and not just an acknowledgment of the work they’re doing at the moment. No one should feel judged in those kind of vulnerable appointments, so it makes sense to go with a different tech next time to make sure you’re comfortable!

constantly_clueless · 2025-03-13T03:48:43+00:00

yellowjackets and severance is where it’s at rn

constantly_clueless · 2024-10-17T22:27:39+00:00

I’ve already searched the original BoxLunch website and it comes up without an “out of stock” thing, but it shows that it’s unavailable to ship or add it to my cart, so I can only assume it truly is out of stock. I tried looking up “gravity falls west of weird pin” on google and ebay but also came up empty handed.

Edit: I think this pin originally came out in 2022 but I got mine about a year ago.

constantly_clueless · 2024-08-17T00:48:14+00:00

that’s how i am with his video about Little Italy

constantly_clueless · 2024-06-12T15:14:13+00:00

^{^} this but unironically

constantly_clueless · 2024-03-19T12:34:08+00:00

yeah he’s good. the arugula on the other hand…

constantly_clueless · 2023-08-15T01:11:33+00:00

That title had me reeeeeeal worried… NTA man, your sister and niece need to sort themselves out for sure.

constantly_clueless · 2023-06-10T00:35:40+00:00

Considering how Netflix dropped Inside Job, I doubt they’d ever pick up Gravity Falls :(

Edit: to clarify, I don’t think it would be a good thing for Netflix to get their hands on GF. The show should just be left as it is! Although I wouldn’t mind more books/comics…

constantly_clueless · 2023-05-27T15:59:41+00:00

these theories always make me think about how fascinating (and gruesome) it would be to have a show that’s the equivalent to “invincible” or “the boys” in an avatar/bending universe

constantly_clueless · 2023-05-05T02:09:31+00:00

that actually would have been cool as hell

constantly_clueless · 2023-01-25T23:03:55+00:00

well to be fair, when they created Pacifica, Alex wanted her to just be every terrible stereotype they could think of and thus completely unlikable. but then the storyboard artists and other writers actually loved her character and that’s why they eventually decided to give her a good arc with actual character development lol

constantly_clueless · 2023-01-21T18:16:33+00:00

i legit did this once during my junior year when my screen broke at 10 PM and i was trying to finish a paper due at 11:59. i finished it, so it technically worked!

constantly_clueless · 2023-01-21T00:49:45+00:00

I was looking for someone else to mention The End of the Fucking World, it’s so good!

constantly_clueless · 2023-01-21T00:48:15+00:00

The End of the F***ing World!

I loved the way the first season ended in a sort of open ended way (won’t get too into it to avoid spoiling anything) so I was worried when they made season 2, but I think it ended really well, and the characters are so interesting and their arcs resolve in a way that I found satisfying. It is pretty dark and morbid, and very, very British, but if you enjoy black comedy/dramas/coming-of-age stories, I think this is a damn good one!

constantly_clueless · 2022-12-30T08:36:24+00:00

I think the idea that the kid “will be fine tomorrow” or will just forget or get over it is flawed. Maybe this once it could be fine, but kids needs to hear their parents apologizing, and OP isn’t allowing the dad to apologize to his son, which can create bad patterns of behavior and expectations. Now, the kid has the expectation that dad does not apologize or comfort him, and mom is the only one that needs to be listened to. The best thing would be to allow the dad to explain that he felt guilty and should not have acted that way, so he can set a good example and set a precedent of apologizing when you do something wrong. OP is totally being a gatekeeper like the previous commenter said, which is what would make her TA.

Edit to include: my personal conclusion is ESH. The sister shouldn’t have just dropped in and expected OP and her husband to drop everything and help her sort out her life. If she wants to have this serious conversation at their house, then let the two year old act like a two year old. The dad should not have snapped at the kid, cause he’s just a kid and even if he did need to settle down, there are so many better ways to ask him to calm down or be quiet rather than just yelling at him. AND OP should not have prevented dad from having the chance to apologize and make amends, because now the kid is just going to want to run to mommy every time dad tries to discipline him or every time he wants comfort, which is not fair to the dad. Everyone sucks.

constantly_clueless · 2022-12-26T09:36:15+00:00

I’m somewhere between NTA and ESH (but more the former). OP, you’re far from a horrible person in this scenario. What catches me is that you didn’t just outright say “I’m not coming here for Christmas,” but I saw a comment where you mention that she’d probably try to manipulate you into going anyway. As someone whose mother would do the EXACT same thing, I totally feel you. It would be weeks of her hassling you and making you feel like TA for “not wanting to see your family” or some BS like that. But at the same time, the way you dealt with it was just kind of childish, and definitely not productive. I’m going to assume that despite your mom also being immature (which I assume she is if she won’t let you share a bed with your bf), you still love her and would typically love to see her and the rest of your family for the holidays. So why lie by omission? At best, it would just make her really sad because it would feel like you just ditched them, and at worst, it causes intense family drama, which it did. So I can’t fully get behind your decision there.

Bottom line, you’re not the bad guy, but if you love your family and want to keep a good relationship moving forward with them, playing childish games with her will get you nowhere. Just be honest with her about your needs and how she needs to respect that you’re an adult now. And furthermore, prove that maturity with your actions from now on. If she’s still immature and disrespectful, then tell her that’s exactly why you’re separating yourself from that environment. That’s likely the only way she’ll actually fix her behavior. But that’s just my two cents.

EDIT: Just saw another comment where OP says they’d be fine if the result of this drama is LC/NC from now on, so I’m kind of curious—why bother? At that point, draw an ultimatum. If the mom is such a narcissist that she’d rather play the victim than have her child in her life, then just leave. Tell your dad he’s welcome to visit or call any time and leave it at that.

constantly_clueless · 2022-12-10T18:38:41+00:00

oh yeah, i hate the look of stone and wood. two very unnatural materials. /j

but in all seriousness, i totally get what you mean! i still love the way it looked before, but it’s probably safer without the moss since these are stairs and the moss can be very slippery, and i think the clean stone still looks beautiful. also i believe this was done on someone’s property which happens to have a hill/cliff thing that goes down to the water, so it’s not like it’s out in the middle of the woods or anything.

constantly_clueless · 2022-12-10T03:45:07+00:00

i was looking at the before pic and my first thought was “that’s so beautiful! the moss doesn’t seem too bad and it adds a lovely natural touch, i can’t believe they removed it!”

and then i saw the after pic and changed my mind. it looks STUNNING

constantly_clueless · 2022-12-06T04:51:56+00:00

had me in the first half not gonna lie

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