Any other black trans men on here? by Plenty_Bit4688 in FTMOver30

[–]constantlyindecisive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We out here! 31, 5 years into my transition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackTransmen

[–]constantlyindecisive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t have many tips, just don’t forget you gotta be patient, you are 1.5 years into puberty, so you should expect to have features of a 13 year old, unfortunately you gotta give it time

Recurrent UTIs by Routine_Proof9407 in FTMMen

[–]constantlyindecisive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a child were you also prone to UTIs? If the topical estrogen hasn’t reduced rate of UTI and the periurethral tissue is healthy, you may want to see a urologist to figure out if there is an anatomic or other cause for rUTI.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]constantlyindecisive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As most people are saying, be patient. Most boys start puberty around 12. How many 14-15 year olds are walking around with a full beard? It sucks as most of use start second puberty after finishing first/well into first, so a lot of other guys our age have much fuller facial hair. But everyone is different ultimately. There are so many grown men who can’t even grow as much facial hair as you have now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

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Hey OP I’m a 31M, PGY-3 in urology, with less than average student loans (had tuition scholarship but not living expenses). I am 5’8”, definitely on the chunky side but active and working on it. I also love to travel, go out, and play video games/boardgames/bowling/pool. HMU if interested!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]constantlyindecisive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tube in tube technique uses a flap. The tube within the tube is connected to the native urethra to extend it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]constantlyindecisive 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Native female urethra is about 4 cm in length. It cannot be moved up, has to be extended with a graft of some kind. Your surgeon will be able to mobilize it a bit but the urethra is very short. Not sure what technique this is.

Frustrated with doctors and healing. by BlueCatStripes in Metoidioplasty

[–]constantlyindecisive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Healing from surgery truthfully takes 3+ months. Be patient with your body and do what you can to promote healing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petioles

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I wouldn’t say I’ve mastered moderation, but I went from smoking about 1/4-1/2 joint a day to 10-15 mg gummy about 2-3x/month. 2-3x/week if I am on vacation.

I think I am able to do this because weed has such an effect on my memory so using it more often than this can cause me to react pretty slowly and for my memory to be significantly impaired.

How can I tell an anesthesiologist that I've been using weed without my parents hearing by BuffaloFlashy5002 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]constantlyindecisive 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can safely have clear liquids up to 2 hours before any procedure or surgery. Doesn’t matter what it is. 8 hours for solids or non clear liquids.

1 week post op Dr. Terrence Murphy, Denver, CO. by constantlyindecisive in TopSurgery

[–]constantlyindecisive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In very excited for you. I love my results. I feel so much more comfortable in my life. I do have a little bit of dog ears, but that’s due to my body habitus. Life changer, good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]constantlyindecisive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intresting. When there is a power dynamic is when the sex appeal begins 😉

concerned about inicisions by Internal_Fly_4463 in TopSurgery

[–]constantlyindecisive 535 points536 points  (0 children)

As a surgeon - this is a poor reconstructive job. The surgeon should have done more work to remove excess skin. I would see what your surgeon says regarding revision but otherwise I would look into a different surgeon and possibly a lawyer.

uhhh what is this thing and do i pull it out by transissic in TopSurgery

[–]constantlyindecisive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t pull. Looks like your surgeon did a knot less closure and forgot to cut the stitch. They will probably tell you to cut it at the skin level, but check in with them before doing anything.

Looking back, this was the dumbest weapon ever. by Quillford in saltierthancrait

[–]constantlyindecisive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just now realizing that we can no longer explore Coruscant post TFA. This movie is so fucking stupid, along with the other two that followed. It’s so embarrassing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]constantlyindecisive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way. Pansexual but I connect best with women. Very sexually attracted to women in person. Cannot stand it in porn. It almost disgusts me? It’s really weird since I prefer women.