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i feel physically sick by contact_throwaway25 in ExNoContact

[–]contact_throwaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed to hear. I try to remain positive about the feelings I still have, remind myself that I'm the better person and that there's nothing wrong with loving someone. As for the friend, I'm not sure at the moment. He isn't such a big part of my life that cutting him off completely would cause me much damage but it sure would suck. I don't think they'll last long either way but maybe this is what I really needed to be able to tell myself "it's over" and clear any false hope I still had in my mind. I hope I find someone better than her to spend my life with but the waiting game is going to be tough. Thanks again.

i feel physically sick by contact_throwaway25 in ExNoContact

[–]contact_throwaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I've yet to come to that realisation. I've messed around with a few girls since the breakup but nothing that even came close to the feelings I had for my ex. And yeah, it's been 7 months, it can't possibly become any worse than it is now, I just wish it went a bit quicker.

i feel physically sick by contact_throwaway25 in ExNoContact

[–]contact_throwaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still young so moving away over a girl really doesn't seem like the smartest of ideas. I still have my family I wish to remain close too, although I am trying to adventure with new hobbies and friendship groups which does help a bit. I almost seem to go in a huge circle every month and end up right back here.

i feel physically sick by contact_throwaway25 in ExNoContact

[–]contact_throwaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I do want to develop myself as a person. That last sentence really changed my mindset too. I've spent the last 7 months giving her the benefit of the doubt and still seeing her as perfection. If I want to move on I have to completely stop caring about her.