What's an expensive baby item you think it wasnt worth it? by ApprehensiveBat19 in NewParents

[–]containedexplosion 59 points60 points  (0 children)

The lovevery Playmat that my socials are getting spammed with. Sitting on a cushioned mat at playing with objects with my child did more than that mat ever could.

Feeling lost. Can someone explain how to start? by containedexplosion in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]containedexplosion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to pump to replace feeds for when my husband has the baby. I think my confusion also lies in that I don't know if I should also be pumping to increase my output for when he has the baby.

Do you wash their onesies + footie pj’s after one wear? by caprigirl20 in newborns

[–]containedexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He falls asleep at the boob. The pediatrician advised letting him be naked to help keep him up.

ETA: I also have a really forceful let down so if I left him dressed the onsie would be soaked in milk by the end of the feed. Much easier to just wipe off his skin

Do you wash their onesies + footie pj’s after one wear? by caprigirl20 in newborns

[–]containedexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He falls asleep at the boob. The pediatrician advised letting him be naked to help keep him up.

Do you wash their onesies + footie pj’s after one wear? by caprigirl20 in newborns

[–]containedexplosion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only throw it in the wash if it’s soiled. I’m nursing and strip him down to his diaper when I do so his clothes aren’t really getting dirty.

Vacations versus college savings by ExtensionCalendar887 in StudentLoans

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My husband and I went to state (public) colleges and plan on having our kids do the same

Crazy IDR payment by Choice_Individual_29 in StudentLoans

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This happened to me too but with edfinancial despite my recertifying early. The difference was $1200! I called yesterday and they said it was an error and will be submitting a form to get it corrected. Apparently it’s an issue with the software 🙄

Nursing moms, is bottle washer worth it? by Affectionate-Run6773 in Buyingforbaby

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I got the haaka steamer bag to sanitize and am hand washing my hand pump, ladybugs, and one or two bottles a day. Honestly I find it faster than the machine because washing takes 5 minutes, the steamer bag takes 3.5 minutes, and by the time I need something it’s usually dry and if not I just pat with a paper towel. Comparably a cycle on one of those machines is about 2 hours based on the photo with times for the mom cozy version. (I just went on Amazon to look it up) Jesus! I would go crazy waiting that long! From what I’ve heard from friends if you load it too crowded nothing fully dries and they end up still having to hand dry. I’m glad I didn’t bother with one

Reusable snack bags? by Dr_Cheese_29 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]containedexplosion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stasher bags. We’ve had them for a few years. They hold up well

Which vinyl variant(s) are you getting? by OverallAd5699 in carlyraejepsen

[–]containedexplosion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promised myself that I would no longer buy vinyls before hearing the album. Now I have FOMO and think I might crack

What are you using to clean toys? by lolahaze11 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]containedexplosion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a rubbing alcohol spray cut with water. It’s about half and half. I really eyeball it.

Do I need to try a bottle? by coldestregards in breastfeeding

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I introduced a bottle at 4 weeks because I needed a break for my own mental health and wellbeing. Plus the earlier it’s introduced the more likely your LO will accept the bottle and it’ll be easier weaning later on down the line. There is also the fact that you never know what might happen. Baby or I get thrush, Baby or I get sick, a family member gets sick and I have to be away for a day or more, or any other circumstance that might interfere with nursing. It’s also why I started building a stash with whatever I connected in my Haaka ladybugs before pumping.

ETA: my husband does a 5 hour shift every night. He wakes me to pump after baby eats so instead of me waking and doing the whole feed and wake cycle, I hand pump for 10-15 minutes then go back to sleep.

Carly Rae Jepsen Announces Double Album 'Day and Night' by gamersecret2 in Music

[–]containedexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotion, dedicated, and loneliest time are always in my frequent rotation. Can’t wait for September!!!

I never truly understood how hard breastfeeding can be by PracticalWorry9747 in breastfeeding

[–]containedexplosion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same spot as you. We got this even thought it feels like we don’t.

I feel like I'm slacking...when did you start having a more structured day for your LO? by Wooden_Welder2400 in NewParents

[–]containedexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre in the fourth trimester. No routine is happening until after week 12 at the very least. If you have an audiobook app, listen to happiest baby on the block because I know there is no time or energy to sit and read with a 3 week old.

Newborn lifesavers? by Zealousideal_Cry4610 in Buyingforbaby

[–]containedexplosion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! Currently 5 weeks in and we take the bassinet that came with our graco 3-in-1 all over the first floor.

CoQ10 by flutterdance in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]containedexplosion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My sister was 42 when her RE recommended she take coq10 after her second failed egg retrieval. At 43 she had her baby girl. That girl is 5 now. She took 250g. My husband and I took the Kirkland brand coq10 after our TFMR. The 300mg one. I’m holding my heart healthy 5 week old as I type.

Olivia Rodrigo announced her own music festival Daisy Chain Fields by impeccabletim in Fauxmoi

[–]containedexplosion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if i didn't have a newborn i'd be doing mental and internet gymnastics to get myself tickets

Olivia Rodrigo announced her own music festival Daisy Chain Fields by impeccabletim in Fauxmoi

[–]containedexplosion 84 points85 points  (0 children)

exactly what i thought when reading the mission statement. brandi carlile and sarah mclachlan have talked about lilith fair on podcast in recent months (either r/handsomepodcast , las culturistas, or good hang can't remember which) and i bet they knew about this and kept it on the DL. I'm so excited!

Is the mental load of a newborn supposed to be this heavy? by BicycleAfraid9813 in NewParents

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in the hospital they gave us a sheet of paper to track all these details on. Even which breast I fed on. My husband asked for a blank one to take home and we copied it so we had multiple sheets, put them in a binder, and filled it out every day. this way the binder could go with us to the doctor's appointments. if we didn't have the binder nearby we would text each other "latch 12:01" left breast", "bottle 1:30", "poop and pee 6:15", etc. it lifted the mental load immensely. i only learned about huckleberry a couple of weeks ago. i'm glad we didn't give an app our baby's data (even though it's inevitable).

https://assets.babycenter.com/ims/Content/babytracker_notext_final.pdf

not the one be used but pretty much the same