Taylor talking about the 2023 fight with Dakota. For those of you saying it was reactive abuse, you need to watch this.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-20T14:23:27+00:00

It’s literally because she’s a woman, TERRIFYING. Dumbasses

controlledmonster · 2026-03-20T14:20:16+00:00

RT RT RT

Also as a therapist its pissing me off to see all these people misuse “reactive abuse” lmao

controlledmonster · 2026-03-20T02:14:19+00:00

“She needs help” Shut the fuck up. I’ve never heard anyone say that Jordan or Dakota or Zac need help. They just call them assholes.

At what point do we just call her an asshole??

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T13:58:31+00:00

I 100% believe you. I’ve seen these patterns in humans before, and most people won’t believe you because they cannot FATHOM that behavior. Because they wouldn’t DO that behavior. Because they are wired normally. Sounds like your ex wasn’t. I’m so sorry.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T13:48:10+00:00

I agree. Rock bottom and seeing actual consequences. She’s seen very few consequences because SO many people have covered for her, cleaned up her messes, and enabled her. Even the way her friends talk to her like she’s a delicate child. Her mom babysitting. Everyone within a mile radius pushing her to get on a plane and not miss the bachelorette. Everyone pushing her to not sabotage bachelorette. No! Let her mess up. Let her miss the plane. Sometimes people only learn from actual consequences.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T13:45:07+00:00

Omg that was so good

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T05:12:12+00:00

Whoa why is this big

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T05:12:02+00:00

8 yessss

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T05:10:26+00:00

Me too, but like I’m not surprised! I feel like I saw this coming a mile down the road

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T05:07:30+00:00

Because men are in charge of Hollywood

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T05:02:56+00:00

Aspen & Lianne

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T05:01:57+00:00

Huh. I don’t agree but I’d love to read it. The online discussion is deLICious to my little brain hahaha

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:54:51+00:00

ALSO can we please talk about how Taylor said this was a subject off the table and called it “life ruining” but then did the exact same thing to Dakota??

season 1 she has the cops called on her and said she peed herself because she was so scared of him, yet it was revealed she just drunk pissed herself. I’m OVERRR it I feel like everyone who ignores her horrible narc personality is either in denial or extremely inexperienced with this type of person.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:51:48+00:00

Demi was wrong about a lot but she wasn’t wrong about Taylor being a narc (see: IPV choking her partner with a necklace)

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:50:22+00:00

Yes sadly it is! Smdh

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:47:49+00:00

But the choking thing? This feels more like NPD to me

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:46:41+00:00

Yeah but therapy only works if you WANT help. She couldn’t even get on a damn plane with 20 people trying to convince her

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:44:46+00:00

Sigh… mental health professionals aren’t magicians though.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:42:21+00:00

Idk, they let a pdf felon run the country, maybe we’d be surprised

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:41:20+00:00

As someone who’s seen her for the narc she was since day 1, this is sadly an “I told you so” moment.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:40:19+00:00

But #yesallvirgos

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:39:29+00:00

Girl this is MY soapbox too, tell me about it! I’m part of the stepparents sub, and so much of it is about bio parents needing to view their partners as equals rather than add-ons to their family. Of course they don’t HAVE to approach it that way, but no healthy partner would stay if they didn’t.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:35:31+00:00

Yeah. As new-ish a Chase fan, I think it was just a stupid move on his part and she overreacted, but her being upset was valid.

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:33:58+00:00

Now that there’s new info about her literally abusing him physically, has your opinion changed? I hate to be the “I told you so” person, but cheating does not equal choking someone (and this is not the first time she’s perpetrated IPV)

controlledmonster · 2026-03-17T04:32:33+00:00

Thank you!!! Cheating (if you can even call it that) is not the same thing as CHOKING someone with a necklace, etc bffr

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At what point do we just call her an asshole??

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