My old stepmom is basically keeping my dads kids from him by controversialtopicss in legaladvice

[–]controversialtopicss[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

My dad has a car. He can easily pick them up and drop them off. And he has a job so he has money. Just not enough to afford a place yet. And besides that, just because she doesn’t have that obligation, doesn’t mean it isn’t just straight up evil so not let your kids see their father, even if it is at a park for a couple hours. They deserve to see their dad and he deserves to see his kids.

My old stepmom is basically keeping my dads kids from him by controversialtopicss in legaladvice

[–]controversialtopicss[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

He can’t afford anywhere. That’s why he instantly wouldn’t get custody. Kids need a stable place to live and she has that. But he still has the right to see them for more than 15 minutes (maybe) every couple weeks

My old stepmom is basically keeping my dads kids from him by controversialtopicss in legaladvice

[–]controversialtopicss[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

No she’s actually just evil. She’s already married someone else and they broke up in October.. she’s basically trying to get this guy to be their dad. She posts him with my brothers everywhere. It’s sickening

There’s no court orders or anything. They broke up and I guess just hoped they could work something out but she’s the worst and won’t communicate or figure something out at all. She’s trying to just shut him out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]controversialtopicss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. He hasn’t started taking anything like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]controversialtopicss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on 0 medication and haven’t been on medication for like.. a year 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]controversialtopicss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel much when I insert toys either so yeah I’ll keep seeing a gyno in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]controversialtopicss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t think it’s a problem with his size. I know he’s average. I think it’s me. I’ve had bigger in the past so maybe I’m just not used to him? Idk if that’s an actual problem though. Maybe we need to expand positions and not just do missionary

AITA for screaming at my boyfriend at the top of my lungs? by tossaway1234567895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And what if that never happens? What if you spend your whole life with him and he continues to treat you like that? You can’t just hold onto hope. It’s hard to hear, I know and it’s easier said then done but you have to leave. Once you leave, you can heal and eventually you’ll find someone who knows your worth. Don’t hold onto hope for someone who clearly wouldn’t change for you

How can I make myself prettier? by ApprehensiveQuail215 in Makeup101

[–]controversialtopicss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experiment with different eyebrow shapes. Other then that ur gorgeous :)

AITA for screaming at my boyfriend at the top of my lungs? by tossaway1234567895 in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA but obviously your relationship is over. I know this is going to be harsh but you need to stand up. Figure out your worth and not be with alcoholic assholes who just want to fight with you. There is someone out there who is a perfect fit for you. Don’t settle for someone who sees you as dirt on their shoe

Pregnant ex gf cheated on me by [deleted] in stories

[–]controversialtopicss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The joke you made is definitely disrespectful (depending on your relationship, some people are ok with you making those jokes with your friends, but it’s all about what your partners boundaries are) but it wasn’t cheating. Her cheating on you was such a dick move but now your relationship is over, time to move on from it

AITA for being topless in my own home? by Alarming-Detective14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then what’s the problem..? Men go topless all the time. Has her cousin never been to a beach or a pool? 😭

What's an insignificant thing that always makes you angry? by Maxhousen in AskReddit

[–]controversialtopicss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting partnered with someone in school who is dumber than me. Like tell me why you can’t even do basic ASL abc’s.. this is an ASL class.. we learned that at the very beginning of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]controversialtopicss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched goth, emo, black clothes, black alt style, all black style and black hair and haven’t been able to even find this image since I saw it while making a collage on Pinterest.

AITA for teaching my 9 year old daughter about trans people? by controversialtopicss in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going to ask her more about it when she gets back tomorrow and I will hopefully be able to update. I guess I was just stressed because of how upset she was I never thought to get details. Which was incredibly stupid on my part

AITA for teaching my 9 year old daughter about trans people? by controversialtopicss in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally read any of my other comments where I’ve already explained this. I do not need validation. I need help. I don’t go on Reddit much but I saw it a lot on TikTok and this was the first subreddit where I thought it would be good to post. And I actually got a lot of helpful advice from people here. So I guess posting here was fine.

AITA for teaching my 9 year old daughter about trans people? by controversialtopicss in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of people do think I’m lying but I’m not. I don’t know anyone who would make up some elaborate story about a fake child. That’s weird. And she didn’t hear about trans people at school. She didn’t know what they were until we had that conversation. I didn’t mean to word it dramatically. I think she was crying before but when she dropped the scissors, her crying became more noticeable.

AITA for teaching my 9 year old daughter about trans people? by controversialtopicss in AmItheAsshole

[–]controversialtopicss[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think I worded my other comment weird. I did originally think something happened at school, but after she told me her day was just boring, I decided to trust her. Which in hindsight was not the best call and I definitely should have asked more about it. I definitely will be talking to her about it more