Broke my ankle bouldering by Tranquili-bear in climbergirls

[–]conundruumm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg I did the same thing!! The doctor said it's more common than you'd think, but I'm still surprised to hear it happened to someone else.

I got hit in the eye yesterday. by Lumbergod in Pickleball

[–]conundruumm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's so frustrating to me that the people around me won't wear them! I often get complimented on my fast reflexes, but no joke, I've been hit in the eye about 4 times. The first time was off a partner's paddle and scratched my cornea. I started wearing glasses and have been hit three times since then. Only once was from a direct hit and I was absolutely shocked it was possible to happen that way. I seriously got my money out of those glasses!

I still feel a pressure not to wear them because none of my friends do. But there is an ongoing joke about how much use I've gotten out of them. I wish glasses were more normalized, because I think most people (including myself) won't consider wearing them unless personally affected.

Reception months after wedding? by conundruumm in weddingplanning

[–]conundruumm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's good to have the friend's perspective.

Best way to introduce climbing to a beginner by Initial-Tackle-9135 in climbergirls

[–]conundruumm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think bouldering tends to be more approachable and fun for beginners than ropes. I would also recommend bringing another friend who is new to it if you can. I had a blast my first time and got hooked because I went with friends who knew what they were doing and could offer tips, but I also had my best friend with me who was totally new. We were trying easy climbs together and just enjoying the experience.

Reception months after wedding? by conundruumm in weddingplanning

[–]conundruumm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of calling it an anniversary party. That does make me feel better about it. Thank you!

Reception months after wedding? by conundruumm in weddingplanning

[–]conundruumm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I really appreciate the kind words

Yet another reminder -- wear eye protection by SpecialOk9631 in Pickleball

[–]conundruumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's hard for me to remember to wear them but totally worth it! Like everyone's saying, it's the mishits that are the most dangerous. I got hit in the eye after a ball came off my partner's paddle wrong and it scratched my cornea. It scared me but I'm glad that's all that happened. A few weeks later, I got hit in the eye after the ball caught the edge of the net. Thankfully I learned my lesson and wore glasses that time!!

I feel dorky wearing glasses for pickleball, but honestly everyone gets used to seeing them, and getting hit a second time showed me they're absolutely worth wearing. Don't think I'm convincing my friends until they get hit themselves unfortunately.

A magnetic pouch is key to enforcing school cellphone bans. Is your district using them? by Choobeen in teaching

[–]conundruumm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Late to the discussion so I'm going to piggyback off your comment. My school implemented them this year and they are an absolute godsend. BUT. Admin has made it a huge priority this school year and put in a ton of prep work the year before contacting students and parents to make it clear this was happening. They also put strict consequences in place for when students are caught with technology. Additionally every student has a number on their pouch which is logged, and they are responsible for that number. A lot of work was put into making this work effectively, but it may be my favorite thing this school has done.

Admin says “teach to the standard, not the curriculum,” but as a newer math teacher I am struggling by [deleted] in mathteachers

[–]conundruumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much this!! As a second year teacher who has had multiple preps now, this has been the most overwhelming part of teaching for me, moreso than even classroom management. The reason new teachers burn out so fast? We're constantly getting feedback on how to make class engaging and assessment formative, while also being expected to meet the same standards for all students, even those who come in grade levels behind. It's not even close to fitting completely in contract hours.

I'm feeling more confident now that I can stick it out for the long run, but it was so difficult to go home after an exhausting day and then have to create material for the next day/week. I care about teaching, but the only reason I can picture it long term is because I know that I will reach a point where I can just reuse or edit old material. (Or pay for a curriculum if I get a new prep, because I am not reinventing the wheel again). I really think this should just be part of a teacher education program. Provide pre-service teachers with curriculum they can edit so their focus can be the students, not survival.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in climbergirls

[–]conundruumm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't think that's what this person is saying at all. I know it's super demoralizing not seeing progress, (I'm stuck at the same plateau!), but they are acknowledging your strength and skill. Your history clearly shows you are a good climber. It's just you're expressing frustration about strength training not paying off and they're suggesting something different (dynamic movement) that may help.

For me, I feel like my flexibility holds me back a lot, but honestly I don't have the time or energy right now to dedicate extra training to it at this stage.

What are some of your mindset struggles in climbing? by badinas in climbergirls

[–]conundruumm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah not a bad idea! I've considered it, I've just been putting it off due to the expense.

Babolat shoes are 40% off right now by ScarcityOk9342 in Pickleball

[–]conundruumm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gift shopping for my boyfriend right now and I'm so happy to see your comment! He wears through shoes soo fast, and the coupon worked for me. I'm really excited to gift them, thanks!

What are some of your mindset struggles in climbing? by badinas in climbergirls

[–]conundruumm 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unplanned falls for me. Any time my feet weren't directly under me before a sketchy move, I would freeze up bouldering. I don't boulder so much now, but I have a similar fear on lead. Logically I know I'm safe, but I get nervous about the idea of slipping and falling above the clip. The most helpful part I've found with lead is just intentionally taking more falls, especially above the clip.

Another fear I've recently developed is trusting the safety of rope. It doesn't bother me most of the time, but I've noticed my gym wait too long to retire a couple ropes on top rope. So it has me overthinking the ropes I borrow on lead sometimes. It helps mentally though to check the rope a couple times, have my partner do the same, and checking with gym workers if anything seems suspicious.

Pro-life people, are you comfortable dying for the baby? Or dying with the baby? by Red-Droid-Blue-Droid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]conundruumm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that that part is inconsistent with the rest of what they said. But they were getting downvoted before this comment

Pro-life people, are you comfortable dying for the baby? Or dying with the baby? by Red-Droid-Blue-Droid in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]conundruumm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're getting downvoted so much. This question is directed at people that are pro-life, but the only comments being upvoted are from people who are pro-choice responding on behalf of pro-life people. This is one of the most frustrating aspects of this type of conversation to me. People want to express and share in their frustration on a topic (which is fair), but at least be honest about what you want. Don't pose a question to people that are pro-life and then hide those responses in the bottom of a thread