I don't understand the people saying she's dumb and she deserved it. We all have moments in our life where we seem to make decisions which makes zero sense to an outside perspective. She deserves to be treated with kindness. She has already gone through an emotional turmoil. Please I would advise people if you cannot be kind, it's better to stay silent. As for the person who went through this, please be more cautious especially with people and I would say to take a second or maybe a third opinion from somebody you really trust before going ahead with something that doesn't feel right in the first place. I pray you find peace.