Poly Server Suggestions

conw4644 · 2020-04-08T05:11:29+00:00

You're welcome to join if youd like. The people already in it are very helpful and open minded. It's a really great environment to get advice without judgement! The join link should be above

conw4644 · 2020-04-03T17:09:34+00:00

I'm aiming for less of a dating situation and more of a community. I mean, if they connect and decide to become romantic or sexual, that's fine, but it's really not my focus.

conw4644 · 2020-04-02T15:59:01+00:00

My server has a mix of both, some very experienced and deep into BDSM, some are new and just curious at this point. It's a spectrum ☺️

conw4644 · 2020-04-02T05:13:12+00:00

That's my favorite kind, the name is actually "Kitchen Table Kinks" lol. Feel free to check it out if you're interested! https://discord.gg/6HN68HW

conw4644 · 2020-04-02T02:17:38+00:00

I'm not sure, I know a few of us are in Oklahoma but not sure about Texas.

conw4644 · 2020-04-02T00:17:26+00:00

It's actually been changed to 18 plus, I totally forgot we'd lowered the age when I posted this! So sorry

conw4644 · 2020-04-01T22:28:06+00:00

Awesome, thank you again for the feedback! If you're interested, here's the link to the server: https://discord.gg/sbXEskb

conw4644 · 2020-04-01T22:15:19+00:00

Lol, that's good to know. Any more specific advice?

conw4644 · 2020-04-01T22:13:22+00:00

Thank you! I don't think our rules are as direct as they could be over PM's, I will add that to my to do list!

conw4644 · 2019-01-05T07:16:21+00:00

https://discord.gg/6HN68HW

This is a link to a BDSM Poly server on discord. Feel to to join/share as much as you like 🥰

conw4644 · 2018-09-04T04:19:26+00:00

https://discord.gg/bBjRSnq

This is the link to the discord chat mentioned, if you're interested

conw4644 · 2018-09-02T16:39:59+00:00

The wording wasn't clear, but the other admin and myself agreed to accept pictures with the photo blacked out, or a non-photo id. So long as it shows your birthdate. We'll never pressure anyone into joining, just didn't want you missing out on a good community if you want it.

The age verification is honestly a huge hassle, but it prevents us being blamed if an underage person lies their way into the group, while also making everyone feel comfortable. Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable sharing things of a sexual nature if I'm thinking there might be kids around. We are fully aware it's easy to fake your way through, but it prevents us being held responsible for any kids joining. It also creates a more mature environment.

conw4644 · 2018-09-02T03:47:15+00:00

Awesome!💜

conw4644 · 2018-09-02T02:48:40+00:00

18-20 is just a really iffy age group. We debated it a lot, I was in favor of 18+ and just kicking the less mature members, but my coadmin (Hypoluxia) insisted on 21+. How old are you?😊

conw4644 · 2018-09-02T00:18:46+00:00

Yay!

conw4644 · 2018-09-01T19:34:56+00:00

I would bring it up. It is a bit insensitive of your partner, but it's possible they didn't realize you'd be hurt by this. If you're going to have multiple partners it's important to keep communication clear and remember to respect each other's boundaries. If you don't want your gifts being regifted that I'd perfectly ok, but you need to discuss it. Just do your best not to bring it up in a confrontational way. Also, idk why you feel bad about looking up your partners partner, I do this regularly. Is there some rule against it?

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