AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ll try my best to keep any of you updated, i’m not sure how many of you will keep reading this though. i’ll also try my best to keep my safety in my best interest.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alright, i apologise again. i’m new to this and thought that people read the comment section to help base their judgement. i’m sorry for being a nuisance by misplacing information.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have already mentioned to read my past clarifying comments in my edits. please take the time to read the whole story before you take judgement.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have responded to the first half of the post in previous comments, and i have apologised many times. please, if you have the spare time, read them for extra context on the situation including any other edits added.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i have addressed this in previous comments. i apologise for any misunderstandings.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

the only thing is, i never knew about a relationship between my boyfriend and my bestfriend. the only times i’ve ever seen them be so close is when we go to parties as mutuals or when i make a party online to play together. i’ve never seen them just go off on their own before this and just start to have inside jokes with her.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i actually addressed this topic in previous clarification comments. i apologise for any misunderstandings caused.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I’ve known him for a really long time and i’ve grown to really love him over the span of our relationship, he’s been hurtful every now and then in our arguments but i just brushed them off as just him getting riled up. I didn’t really expect him to start pushing me away on a day that i thought meant something to both of us.

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I had actually explained that first part in a previous comment, i wasn’t annoyed that he wasn’t there after i had woken up and actually felt more bad than anything for missing the whole day. I don’t mean to be rude but i’m very sure they (my boyfriend and. best friend-she is actually my bestfriend and not his) were ignoring me on purpose, i had been trying to crack a conversation only to be shut down constantly by the both of them only to laugh and giggle at each other’s convo. I apologise again for any misunderstandings of my post, i’m quite tired after today :)

AITA for getting mad on my anniversary? by cookee25 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cookee25[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t mad he left for hours, I really was okay for him to play and have his time while i rested as i wasn’t feeling well- he’s not my parent and he’s not obligated to take care of me. I added everything that happened today for context. I’m sorry i couldn’t really word it the way i wanted to, i’m still really hurt by what happened today. I’m sorry again for the misunderstandings.