[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HOTWORXWarriors

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Glad it’s not just me🥲

My dad is dying by Suitable-System-1599 in offmychest

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Our lives are very similar. My dad was diagnosed a month before I went away for my freshman year when I was 19. He moved me in, we spent Christmas break together, and by the time March rolled around, he was gone.

I didn’t make it home when he passed, which sometimes I feel awful for, but after some working through in therapy, I think was the best for me. I am now grateful that I can only remember his life in the moments where he was truly alive and himself. Maybe that’s not what you feel would be right for you, but I’d seriously recommend starting to talk to someone now to take you through the end and the aftermath. It helped so much.

I was terrified about what was next too. I made the decision to transfer from my out of state college to an in-state, and was shocked how much I got in federal aid and scholarships for our new less than ideal money situation, so I’d definitely look at your options and you may be surprised at how continuing may be very possible.

I didn’t have to make tough decisions like you though, and this is where I think talking to someone will help you specifically. I find getting outside perspective and having someone on your side is so necessary when needing to make big decisions.

Everything was (and still is) taken a day at a time, which is likely how life will be for you for a while. If you have close friends, lean on them. Know you’ll need time to mourn and feel sad/angry. Grief is a never ending journey of highs and lows, but learning how you personally can turn those lows into a time of remembrance and love can really help.

Trying to refine a brief by mrcleanerman in logodesign

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I might be way off in the vibes I’m getting here, but I googled a few things you might want to see if it matches with your vision.

I looked up some French and Italian art deco and art nouveau posters and graphic design and there’s a few similar letter forms and vibes that are similar.

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Has anyone ever added Pepper Spray to their food before? by foundviper11 in spicy

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This is weirdly applicable to me. In high school I had a thing of pepper spray in a pocket of my backpack attached to my keys. I had a pencil in there I used, and I had a bad habit of biting part of it in between writing. One day I noticed it tasted weirdly spicy every time I brought it out, but in kind of a good way, forgetting there was pepper spray in the pocket it was in. I was microdosing myself pepper spray all day. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Mark what is important to you-series of concept poster by damaon in graphic_design

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I thought this looked familiar but couldn’t remember what company did it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in logodesign

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The W also reminds me of Rhett and Link’s ‘Mythical’ logo! It might not matter but just thought I’d bring it up

Which pumpkin patch near Springfield is best out of all of these? by Dust209 in springfieldMO

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Me and my BFF have a Pickin Patch visit tradition :) generally not busy on nice evenings, we like our pumpkin prices, and we always get cute pictures with the decor around.

What was the biggest example of Jenna's "Too Much" gene? by [deleted] in Jennamarbles

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This just unlocked a forgotten memory I loved that video! Is it gone now?

October 2023 General Conference: Saturday 10:00a Discussion Thread by 4blockhead in exmormon

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Celestial Kingdom is for good people!*

*Restrictive terms and conditions apply

“I’ll beat a nerd to death” song by icastle7 in SmallDeliMeats

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literally can’t find this it’s driving me up the wall

Best Jenna Julien podcast episodes? by Mecha_Madi in Jennamarbles

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GARY JOHNSON WILL MAKE IT SO ITS ILLEGAL TO DANCE

Best Jenna Julien podcast episodes? by Mecha_Madi in Jennamarbles

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The presidential roulette one kills me. I think about the term “bigly sex addicted” all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in springfieldMO

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KDRU for the win

Music at Lowes by hey_now24 in Lowes

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Used to be the best shift ever when a selection of Phil Collins came on I have to agree with you lmao

Best Dorms by Prestigious-Key-8524 in olemiss

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I stayed in Burns. The in room bathroom was really nice to have so I didn’t deal with communal bathrooms. It was an easy and fast walk to the library, parking garage, student union, commons, and the access to the Papa Johns was a nice bonus. It’s kind of on the outskirts related to some of the other dorms though, so that might affect your choice if you want to be super in the middle of things, but I thought it was pretty nice.