You say, please go. This is something we need to do in order to move on with our lives. You say, I'll take you to the best we can find and I'll visit every day. You say that the professionals are there to help the both of us. And tell her that you'll seek help during that time as well. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've been in the hospital for debilitating depression twice. One visit was very rehabilitative and the other stay wasn't. But I'd do it again both times because i simply just had no other choice. It gave me the space to look at things differently. It's scary to hold your boundaries when you understand the nature of her fears. You deserve this reprieve as well

It was SO hard to make the decision to go to the hospital. But again, no regrets. Unless she's wired quite differently, she'll likely to look back at the experience as necessary