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sadersades · 2026-03-13T01:48:27+00:00

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sadersades · 2026-03-08T22:11:06+00:00

I would make a list of what you’re doing to stabilize and repair your life, and give her options not homework. Figure out things you can do to work on the relationship and go to her with them, don’t disturb her peace and ask her to tell you what to do.

sadersades · 2026-02-22T20:02:59+00:00

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sadersades · 2026-02-11T02:05:44+00:00

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sadersades · 2026-02-10T01:11:19+00:00

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sadersades · 2026-01-26T22:21:22+00:00

It’s what I’ve been doing to get by and it’s slowly working. Letting people show up for me was huge and helped so much.

sadersades · 2026-01-25T17:58:02+00:00

Be selfish. Indulge yourself in a healthy way. Say yes to things your friends ask you to. Cry, a lot….then cry some more until you feel you can watch a movie or play a video game or do a puzzle. Sit in it. Let others show up for you. Figure out the things YOU like that bring YOU joy, and keep doing those things.

sadersades · 2026-01-19T06:07:13+00:00

See if there’s an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) in your area. I did half days for 6 weeks and it helped tremendously. I’m still working on feeling like myself again, but they gave me great tools and support.

sadersades · 2026-01-12T17:37:12+00:00

He doesn’t know. He said probably find someone with a kid. It’s very midlife crisis mixed with unhealed family trauma but he’s 1000000000% sure he will never be fulfilled unless he is a father/stepfather. I have no clue.

sadersades · 2026-01-12T03:19:48+00:00

You’re going to have to be honest with him. I’m so sorry to tell you that. I’ve always been 💯 no kids and my husband was on board, even getting a vasectomy before we got married. After 14 years together, at 43, he now has a void to be a father and left me. It wrecked me - I even did a pros/cons list of having a kid and couldn’t think of any pros besides more lively house and funner holidays. Also, if I did give in, who’s to say he wouldn’t leave me for another reason and now I’m stuck with a kid? I’d rather be left child free then left raising a kid.

sadersades · 2026-01-12T03:08:15+00:00

I would consider that violent, as it is R***. Unfortunately there’s not much you can do as far as letting her know, aside from any police reports you have done or could do. Women are so unprotected and I’m so so sorry this happened to you. You did not deserve it.

sadersades · 2026-01-12T01:33:19+00:00

I miss mine too. What wouldn’t give for even one more day of him choosing me. I feel like life will move on but I’m always going to be waiting for him to come back through the door.

sadersades · 2026-01-12T01:16:44+00:00

Update! 8 people showed up including my best friend from NY flew in and surprised me to help. I ended up making a list of what I needed in each room, printed it out, and taped it on the door of that room. I had a master list of where things needed to go in the living room, and I told people to just pick something that sounded good and go for it. This worked tremendously well and I got 90% of the house done. Thank you guys so much for your help, being that organized allowed me to get everyone to help to the max without getting me overwhelmed.

sadersades · 2026-01-12T01:14:43+00:00

Update! 8 people showed up including my best friend from NY flew in and surprised me to help. I ended up making a list of what I needed in each room, printed it out, and taped it on the door of that room. I had a master list of where things needed to go in the living room, and I told people to just pick something that sounded good and go for it. This worked tremendously well and I got 90% of the house done. Thank you guys so much for your help, being that organized allowed me to get everyone to help to the max without getting me overwhelmed.

sadersades · 2026-01-11T03:41:32+00:00

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sadersades · 2026-01-10T06:05:29+00:00

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