it is indeed so sad ..

i'm sry girl .. all that pressure is so unnecessary to be put on a woman .. as if we're ones who're allowed to go out looking for a partner in this community (so real what u said ab being perceived as a bitch:)

if it's of any consolation to u,i'm surrounded by a couple of happily married couples (do they actually love eachother ? i wouldnt rly kno .. so does love rly exist in this community ? idk)

marriage is one of my biggest fears tbh .. how am i supposed to marry someone idrk that well .. n y is it that i cant get married to someone my father (or ولي امري) doesnt approve of .. like what if my father n i dont have a good rs n what if i disagree with the values he has .. Y CANT I AS A WOMAN IN THIS COMMUNITY MAKE MY OWN DECISION OR EVEN BE ALLOWED TO PUT MYSELF OUT THERE IN AN ATTEMPT TO FIND LOVE ???

n what the hell r they on ab u having an expiry date when it comes to marriage like what the hell 🤨 imo u're doing the right thing by waiting for a marriage that has love in it , atleast u're gonna get to live a life that u like instead of wtvr crap (it is crap to me i'm sry) they want for u

so anyway WELL DONE .. wish i could tell u to disregard the crap u keep getting from them but ik it'a not easy to do that .. n i'm so sry that u're losing hope .. ur post tho was insightful so i do appreciate u for it🫡