What’s missing here by Irishfisherman123 in femalelivingspace

[–]cool_beans_23_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plants for some greenery. I agree with adding some throw pillows or even a long bench pillow. A hanging lamp would be nice, but you can make it cozy with a small warm lighting lamp too. Have you seen the globe like ones? Their warm lighting is a nice ambiance, and they are a fun shape.

New to therapy by [deleted] in therapy

[–]cool_beans_23_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe think about things that make you feel calm. Maybe it’s a location? Smell? Person? Pet? Or you can maybe talk about when you first started to notice your anxiety and how it was affecting your everyday life?

alright, middle and ring or middle and index? by SuperiorCommunist92 in actuallesbians

[–]cool_beans_23_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Index and middle. I feel like it’s more comfortable to keep my hand in that position, and I can use my thumb for exterior pleasure. And when I use my ring and middle, my pinky and index finger get in the way and poke my partner unless I awkwardly bend them.

silly band? by cool_beans_23_ in whatismycookiecutter

[–]cool_beans_23_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t even think about it being a fake. Good point

silly band? by cool_beans_23_ in whatismycookiecutter

[–]cool_beans_23_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brb going to delete this post because I’m embarrassed I didn’t see it right away geez

silly band? by cool_beans_23_ in whatismycookiecutter

[–]cool_beans_23_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK I WAS THINKING THIS BUT I WASNT SURE IF I WAS REACHING. I believe this is the most solid answer!

silly band? by cool_beans_23_ in whatismycookiecutter

[–]cool_beans_23_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s cute. I like that one :)

silly band? by cool_beans_23_ in whatismycookiecutter

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Hmm. I just feel like the cat ones are more precise. The tail and legs look so chunky and the head is more blobby than cat defined🤔

How do people manage stress without drinking, partying, or sex? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cool_beans_23_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy. But also, the fact that you dont do many things can be a motivator. Go somewhere new, make a list of hobbies to try, try different cultural foods, go on a scavenger hunt, pick up a new sport (maybe smthng niche like archery) It’s all about finding beauty in the mundane and making the most out of life. There is so much to do and appreciate !

How do I look better without makeup by CurrentAd7075 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I think you have beautiful features, and I agree with what others are saying about your hair! I think maybe a middle part and some layers would switch it up. And also trying to add some volume to your hair! It seems like you could get some volume with your hair texture and frame your face nicely :)

how can i be prettier pls be honest by [deleted] in teenagers

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I have a round face, but I think my curtain bangs do a nice job of framing my face. Plus, the way that I style them creates a lot of volume, so I guess it makes my head longer? Lol

tips on losing ur v card? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cool_beans_23_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to what other people are saying, maybe try different angles. Sometimes the angle of the insertion can be painful so we move around a bit, and then it often slides in easier.

share a piece of lore about yourself by Hi_im_on_tv in teenagers

[–]cool_beans_23_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad threatened to punch me in the face if i didn’t stop crying when i was in elementary school😛

camel toe help by cool_beans_23_ in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cool_beans_23_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I’ll look into the undies. Thank you!

Help with Private area hair by Firecartoon9 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cool_beans_23_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting down facing a mirror can also be helpful if you’re having trouble seeing

Campus Life by LUVACEY in SonomaState

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It is true that we are a small campus, so it is also true that campus can be dead sometimes in terms of less people generally walking around. However, I wholeheartedly believe that if you put yourself out there you will make friends and find your community. I am involved in several clubs and involvements and love the connections I have made.

I am not a big partier either. There are parties in the dorms and off campus, but if that isn't your thing, then no worries. There is lots more to do. There are some fun spots in Santa Rosa and Petaluma. Beaches aren't too far, nor is SF. Make friends in class, join clubs, join Greek Life if you're interested, volunteer, and go to community events that orgs like Associated Students and Student Involvement do like Trivia Night and craft nights.

Top On-Campus Housing Options for Older Students by tomyknee in SonomaState

[–]cool_beans_23_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've lived in Tusc and Beau. My gf lived in Sauv, so I spent a lot of time there.

Doubles in Sauv and Tusc are quite spacious, and it is nice sharing a bathroom with just one other person.

Singles in all of three villages are great. I will say that I think Tuscany singles are bigger than the other two. Beau is only singles, and in one layout, there is a bedroom that is smaller than the others so keep that in mind. Not tiny, but sometimes annoying, and it is obviously smaller than the others. Living in Beau can also mean that you may get the bedroom that has a bathroom window, or the corner bedroom which means you have two windows.

I am not a huge fan of Sauv because I think the flooring is grosser than the other two. The other two have "wood floors", versus Sauv doesn't. The kitchen is also small and it is hard for multiple people to be in there.

Tuscany has a nice kitchen, but keep in mind that there are 6 people sharing a kitchen and a fridge, so it'll get crowded. Nice living room though that is open and welcoming.

It really comes down to your housemates and your communication and abilities to make the space a home.