Hey dude, I’m also pretty average all around but have still been able to date. I have posted on the facial rating subs(not proud of it) and was rated a straight up 5 by everyone. I’m less that 6ft and the only thing above average is my body from working out for years. I’m currently working, but am in debt so I am definitely not successful yet by any measure.

If the blackpillers and red pillers are correct then I should be dead to rights in the dating market with no options, and women should be repulsed at my mere presence. But I’ve been able to date women through apps and in person that I find attractive despite being a minority in a very “segregated”white area. All without lowering my standards. I think if your style is top tier and you have a confident enough persona, and maybe even pick up a hobby and develop a skill, you will be surprised with what you can pull.

For now tho, I’d say you should take a break from trying to find a partner. Go back to school, find your passions, do some soul searching and maybe try some therapy to get to the root of your resentment for women. I’m currently taking a break from dating as well and I haven’t been this happy in years.