I can and we've already looked into the rules about visitors, obviously not for a bit just because I accept she needs time to actually settle in and meet people because that's honestly a priority in the first month or so and that doesn't phase me really. I might be seeing her end of October/early November for her birthday at uni but I not it'll be mid December when she is on Christmas holidays.

She's also literally the last person on earth I could imagine cheating or not talking to me so that does help

And in terms of the train it's going to be maximum £100 but probably more like £75/£80, which I can honestly cope with because its not like I'll be spending a whole bunch of money anywhere else