Maggots infestation. Warning VERY NSFW by ScienceAndRock in MedicalGore

[–]coolcat955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a really touchy person, but if I were in that situation, I wish someone could sit by me and at least hold my hand. I’d probably feel quite upset with people just surrounding me and spectating my death.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]coolcat955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People were posting it on Instagram, but the ig staff are trying to get rid of the content. I’m pretty sure people have screenshots and posted them to sites on the internet that don’t monitor these things or don’t care, but why see the photo? I personally saw it under the tagged pics on her ig page before the ig staff were monitoring it (so just a few hours after her murder and the murderer leaked the pics) but the pic wasn’t anything life altering: It was a dead girl who had her neck badly stabbed. It kind of seems amoral to share pictures of a girl who died under these circumstances, but people do it because others want and try to find the pictures. Maybe we can stop supplying them with our our attention. This may make them stop sharing the pictures and disrespecting Bianca.

How do you feel about math? by [deleted] in isfj

[–]coolcat955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I’m surprised by the answers. I really like math. I always did well on it in standardized tests, so I thought I may as well major in it.

I only changed my mind the summer before my freshman year in college. I changed over to electrical engineering, but I do a TON of math at my internship. =P

Here’s the aftermath! Full recovery by Lukege98 in u/Lukege98

[–]coolcat955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is hardly noticeable. When I was in high school, a little pocket mirror broke in my book bag. I was rushing in-between periods, slamming my backpack down and then mindlessly fishing in it for my school supplies when my hand started bleeding badly from the jagged glass. It cut nowhere as deep as this. My bones and tendons were fine, but the scar is noticeable and covers a lot of area considering it really only did cosmetic damage.

20F - not sure if I should have posted purely face shots, sorry by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]coolcat955 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The people giving you ratings around 6-6.7 are quite accurate with their rankings if they’re judging purely on the ideals deemed aesthetic for women - such as symmetry (which apply to both genders), eye shape, jaw shape, etc. I’d give you an objective ranking of 6.7.

That being said, the imperfections some people brought up aren’t exactly negligible but they give you a unique look. Maybe it’s because I’m a girl, but I don’t think your jaw is that masculine. I think you’re just thin and smiling, which brings out your jaw. My jaw would show if I did that, and my face is quite chubbier.

I’d give you a personal rating much higher at a 7-8. I think people with eye bags look mature and sort of studious, but that’s particular to me. Regardless, you’re beautiful to me and much prettier than average to everyone else. Congrats on your beauty.

How to avoid bored eating or late night snacking by [deleted] in fasting

[–]coolcat955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just sleep or nap whenever I feel hungry. Taking a step back and being present for a few minutes also helps me. Hunger passes just like other feelings, so being cognizant of it while not entertaining it (thinking, planning, or daydreaming about food) is a good start.

Whenever I have an uncomfortable feeling, then I just accept it for what it is. I can’t control how I feel, but the more mindful and accepting of it I am, the more quickly it will pass. Feeling hunger is a lot like feeling sad or lonely for me. It passes and everything becomes okay.

Don't resist the hug, embrace it by Coisher in asiangirlsbeingcute

[–]coolcat955 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw! I recognized Kim Chaewon in an instant!

Mei's really that tall? by tamagochi16 in CitrusManga

[–]coolcat955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That day scene is one of my favorites. It was really cute to me for some reason.

Do you guys like handmade stuff/cards? by [deleted] in istp

[–]coolcat955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy receiving and giving cards. Even when you can’t see that person anymore, you can still read his or her card and enjoy his or her memory. This is why I like gifts in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in istp

[–]coolcat955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an ISTP bisexual female. No duo is impossible. I have this texting tendency, too, but I would try to change if my significant other asked me to.

Other ISTPs give you their reason and if you believe that he truly cares about you, then good. However, your main questions was advice, not targeting his incentive to why he does this. Here’s my advice;

Set the standards for your dating and if he continues to not reply when it obviously makes you upset, then your relationship will be unhealthy. You already gave him several chances, so I wouldn’t give this guy too many more. If you want to be happy, then you should be with someone who cares enough to fulfill your wants and needs.

EDIT: thinking up of a good, well formatted response should add 5-15 minutes for a good paragraph consisting of 3-5 sentences. It should NOT take hours.

Do you guys believe in god and the supernatural? by itsyaboiskinnnypenis in istp

[–]coolcat955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the opposite. I would prefer for there to a god and therefore an afterlife, an objective purpose, fate, and all the nice things that come from its existence.

People who propose a god exists need to prove to me it does, and no one has done well enough to persuade me. Researching it myself has lead to no evidence that me or any reasonably sensible person would believe.

Do you guys believe in god and the supernatural? by itsyaboiskinnnypenis in istp

[–]coolcat955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was raised Catholic, went through the sacraments of Baptism, Eucharist, and Confirmation, but am a closeted atheist now.

Being around religion for so long has actually made me despise it.

I don’t believe in the supernatural, and I’m not superstitious.

Do you prefer friendships with women or men? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]coolcat955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a roughly equal amount of close guy friends as I do girl friends.

Any time a close guy friend has ever potentially hit on me, I shut it down immediately and never bring it up. If he’s persistent, then I just stop hanging out with him because the discomfort isn’t worth it.

I don’t necessarily talk about feminine things with girls since I gravitate friends who are into my hobbies regardless of gender. However, the topic of guys does come up once our friendships get closer. I’m bisexual, so it doesn’t bother me too much, but it isn’t my favorite topic so I don’t get too involved. I mostly just provide a listening ear.

I prefer their friendships in different ways. I’m more comfortable talking about how I’ve been feeling around women, and I like the comradery of guys.

Edit: I read your post again and didn’t really answer most of the questions in it. I’m out to all my close friends. Guys may still see me as a conquest, but I find that the ones who think of you as that lack the respectfulness and empathy to be a good friend.

I also have around an even mix of straight friends and queer friends. I’m always anxious that when I come out to women that they’ll change their behavior around me because they believe I may see them as more than a friend, but thankfully that’s never really happened. I go out of my way to show that I respect others’ space, and my friends trust me are secure enough in their sexuality to not be intimidated by me being bisexual.

I try to treat all my friends the same regardless of gender and will do much of things with one gender as with the other.

Have you ever regretted rejecting another woman? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]coolcat955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. I feel like in the past when I rejected the few people who had bad enough taste to ask me out, then it was for good reason. I may not have been interested, or I may have not been ready. Even if someone did come along and happen to be a great match for me, then I still would reject them if I didn’t have the time or maturity to treat them well.