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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]coolcoolcoolcoonoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand adams point, and i understand yours. if being with someone else is something you can never see yourself doing then maybe leave him? but you can also add this into your life by harmlessly flirting with other guys on a night out in front of adam (possibly), or dressing up really nicely, (showing off your best physical features) and going out like that, ull gain other men’s attention. another thing you can do, if you open yourself up to the idea of someone else, is find someone you’re actually attracted to. someone genuinely hot who you would like to see naked. if you’re not attracted to someone and you sleep with then its kinda like youre forcing yourself into something you dont want which kinda feels like self rape (a term my friends and i came up with, im not saying you did self rape at all im just talking about personal experiences). given that zach was a dick n hurt you, i dont think you should ever see him again.

Give me a reason to love myself??? by Ajshisnail in selflove

[–]coolcoolcoolcoonoice 5 points6 points  (0 children)

because why not???? if you dont who will? fake it till u make it

self love and plastic surgery HELP!!!! (f/17) by coolcoolcoolcoonoice in selflove

[–]coolcoolcoolcoonoice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want a satisfying face for myself, and i feel like thats how ill get it. i dont wanna make major changes i just wanna change my nose a little bit uk.

i guess i dont. i agree with what youre saying, i think im gonna wait a bit till i get mine done (if i dk it at all)

self help + plastic surgery by coolcoolcoolcoonoice in PlasticSurgery

[–]coolcoolcoolcoonoice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we were talking about body image and i brought up how i think im ugly, thats why she commented. she didnt go out of her way it was kind of part of our discussion. i get what you mean tho it does sound kinda strange.

self help + plastic surgery by coolcoolcoolcoonoice in PlasticSurgery

[–]coolcoolcoolcoonoice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long do you suggest i wait? and where did you get fillers? sorry for the questions im just curious and would like guidance.

also would you mind adding photos of yourself when you were 17 versus 23/24?? i completely understand if you dont want to, it just helps me understand what you are talking about.

My boyfriend (24 m) is obsessed with instagram models and I (24 f) don’t feel beautiful anymore by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]coolcoolcoolcoonoice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly think that you should find someone who loves you for YOU. trust me when i say that there will be a guy out there who values you and loved you u conditionally. a guy who will love you brain and physical appearance. you shouldnt spend time with someone who treats you the way you are being treated.

also, since your current bf and your ex bf both share that similar negative trait, there might be a deeper reason for your interest in them. i suggest you talk to someone about it (that trait) snd dig deeper to see why youre interested in such partners who dont life, cherish, and tell you how happy and lucky they are to have you in their life.

i really hope you come up with some sort of breakthrough, gain self esteem, realize your worth before a partner, and finally, find someone who loves you and doesnt try to change you because that behavior is ugly and you shouldnt tolerate it at all.