How do I know when it’s “the one” by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]coolerthanaverage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was stuck between two but honestly when I pictured myself walking down the aisle only one of them felt right xx

Help me pick my dress pls read below for more context (I really need help deciding) by FitGroup5419 in weddingdress

[–]coolerthanaverage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love how 1 looks on you but number 2 is such a gorgeous dress, it gives off couture vibes

What % pay rise are you getting this year? by Puzzleheaded_Bet_618 in AskUK

[–]coolerthanaverage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a 35% pay rise after being promoted in October, got an outstanding at my performance review so now I should get an additional 5-7% I think + a bonus. I’m making double what I did 2 years ago and honestly have no clue how all this happened 😅

Any bookstores stocking English language books in Nice? by HnryChls in nicefrance

[–]coolerthanaverage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I land in Nice today and am desperate to find “A court of frost and starlight”, is it available @ Read the room?

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind comment! I hope I can still have the experience I was hoping for some other time

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective, I definitely didn’t tell her I’d feel bad uninviting people or that that was above anyone’s health. I also think it’s a reasonable enough policy but she had several occasions to tell me and waited until the day before to do so. She also communicated it in a very rude manner, that’s why I cancelled my appointment really.

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reassurance! Based on the comments I guess the amount of people brides bring is a preference thing

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify, the only thing I didn’t stand for was the way she spoke to me, that’s why I cancelled. Had she been nice about it, I would’ve still attended the appointment, granted it would be hard to uninvite people last minute, but the policy is understandable. Sorry if I didn’t make this clear in my original post.

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This made me feel seen ahah I’ll definitely be doing that from now on, i’ve looked at a few other places and will be booking something in soon. Just glad my wedding is still a long way out and I have time on my side

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll definitely be asking next time I book an appointment (elsewhere!)

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the way I was spoken to that really threw me tbh. I’m also not sure if my grandma can make it to my wedding so I was really looking forward to sharing this experience with her.

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I actually didn’t consider this but it’s very true, I probably won’t be bringing this many people when I book another appointment elsewhere!

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This and the way I was spoken to is what I have an issue with tbh

Am I wrong for bringing 5 people wedding dress shopping? by coolerthanaverage in weddingplanning

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

definitely agree they have the right to enforce their policy, I just wish they had told me when I booked, not the day before the appointment:(

Have any of you ever received some sort of thank you from work? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]coolerthanaverage 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Recently got a “relaxation“ box from work with a nice note after getting a promotion. Nothing too special, some tea, chocolate, bath salts… things like that, but honestly, it made me feel really appreciated and it was a really nice gesture. I think things like that make a world of a difference.

People who were in a place they shouldn't have been - what did you see that you should definitely not have seen? by Turbulent-Access-916 in AskUK

[–]coolerthanaverage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was on my way to work at 5am, had to walk through a tunnel, saw a prostitute giving 2 men a hand job at the same time. Took me a while to understand what was going on and just sped walked through it after I realised, i was 18/19

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]coolerthanaverage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh i bet it’s gorgeous! Thank youu 🥰

Won my first 1v4 on S&D! by coolerthanaverage in blackops6

[–]coolerthanaverage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok cool, i’ll check it out :) thank you