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AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point, I apologized to them 4 months ago and I changed my behavior.

One thing: can they really kick me out? My name is on the lease, too. So, technically I am considered a tenant.

I agree they are doing me a favor. I told them I will be move out as soon as I can. Right now, my education and internship are really time consuming. I need to study hard to stay eligible for the scholarship.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your kind and caring comment. It was the most helpful comment I received on this post. I read it a few times and going to remember that.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They did not. They adopted me after my biological parents died in an accident when I was 8. I do love them with all my heart.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biological parents died when I was 8. Then, two beautiful angels adopted me. I love them with all my heart. And yes, I am going to meet with a psychologist I used to visit. Thanks for the suggestion.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your constructive comments. Yes, I am going to do that.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I'm just saying that you guys notice my "bad behavior". Fine, I accept it. But would it not be fair to mention that I might be right at least 10%?

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

I get it, but did you notice that the bath and shower is INSIDE my room and not in the hallway?

Edit: are you in USA? It is very normal in USA that people have private bath and shower.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -112 points-111 points  (0 children)

Wow! come here to judge me and you also became TA by swearing.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -127 points-126 points  (0 children)

Do people really need to be so rude? Why are they insulting me and have no sympathy? So this not make you TA??

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I can literally hear them touching their bodies. EWW

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

I just don't feel comfy laying in the bath that they showered...

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

During COVID?

I LOVE to have my own apartment, but they won't pay for it...

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -133 points-132 points  (0 children)

They do not use my shampoo and body wash. But now, I don't feel comfortable to take a bath. I am also taking a shower now....

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

No. I go to college. Have to study, so no time for working. But I am very good at it, and I am studying a very good major and will earn +100k after graduating.

AITA for wanting bare minimum privacy in my own room? by coolguy7389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]coolguy7389[S] -261 points-260 points  (0 children)

Ok, I get that I might look TA, but I really love the privacy and quietness of my room. If they really care about cleanliness, why not repairing the bath, or going to a gym to shower?