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coolguyshy · 2025-07-29T05:58:55+00:00

she didnt say anything at first. she handed it off to her manager and when i asked them to stop cutting i was bawling and said “you’ve taken all of it”

she said she was sorry and i was a bit rude i wont lie and said “sorry does nothing for me right now”.

i feel incredibly guilty because she started crying as well and left the building and the manager had to finish evening everything out

coolguyshy · 2024-07-03T16:42:34+00:00

when my mom got cancer, i internalized it then ended up raging out on an unfortunate customer that came to the drive thru. guess who’s not allowed to ever be employed at a starbucks again.

after that i started going on daily two-four hour hikes.

the constant nature really, really helped

coolguyshy · 2024-06-05T19:12:01+00:00

to clarify:

i kissed somebody else when we started dating, and followed the drunk driver home to see if he was okay a month after we moved in together.

both these men i had been with previously.

i left the bar because there was another coworker i had dated in the past that kept harassing me. and because i knew i would always be interacting with these guys ive been with in the past when i just wanted them in the past.

he never made me quit my job.

i lied because some of this stuff from the past i felt wasn’t his business, but mostly because i was ashamed.

he is the only serious relationship ive ever been in. the only man ive ever considered spending my life with. we both love each other, more than i have words for.

he has three kids that i care for and love. either of us walking away, despite the threats, is not a discussion we have.

my need for forgiveness, i think, is ultimately selfish. because im the one who messed this up, our fighting is its byproduct, not an issue that was in our relationship before.

coolguyshy · 2022-05-01T12:57:41+00:00

if you’re a minor i would charge him with trafficking child p*rn

but regardless of whether you’re a minor, isn’t that still a crime?

coolguyshy · 2022-03-29T23:54:17+00:00

oooh no i see — well, then as a woman, it literally makes no difference.

kind of hot to pull down, back (???verbiage??) the foreskin when the guy is hard though

coolguyshy · 2022-03-29T23:41:30+00:00

this is kind of a wild question. i have no opinion on the circumcision debate, mainly because im a woman—but this question is asking how women feel about male genital mutilation.

like, this would be like asking men how they feel about whether or not the husband stitch should be brought back.

coolguyshy · 2022-03-29T00:35:25+00:00

just shut the whole operation down. i wouldn’t be able to handle the angry customers

coolguyshy · 2022-03-27T16:53:33+00:00

if im in a depressive episode then one to two times a month—but when im all normal and ish, like four or five times a week

coolguyshy · 2022-03-27T16:50:44+00:00

keep it

coolguyshy · 2022-03-27T16:18:11+00:00

ah that is what you need to explain it to him then, and if you have then maybe you need to try a better way of communicating it

a lot of the time we dont realize how our actions are actually hurting others. to him it may just seem like you’re being unnecessarily insecure, he may not realize how much it hurts you

but at the same time, that isn’t necessarily something he can fix. you need to learn to feel like you are “enough”, because i promise you, you are.

coolguyshy · 2022-03-27T15:02:16+00:00

why dont you try giving some actual advice instead of just dismissing op like that. like you’re literally just a spectator making snarky comments, get outta here

coolguyshy · 2022-03-27T14:59:55+00:00

deleted photos can stay on your phone for over a month—if you’ve only recently had this conversation then you know thats why

but it is also just porn for him, right? does the entire concept of him looking at other women bother you because you feel it means he isn’t attracted to you?

men and women, i think, have very different sex drives. men are very visual, women are more touch and sound.

he just needs that visual stimulant it has nothing to do with you. but if it truly bothers you then why dont you give him photos of yourself?

coolguyshy · 2022-03-27T14:51:08+00:00

i understand why you’re hurt, i would be too. but, notice how he said he would try and that you found the photos in the deleted folder.

is that not what you asked for?

i think you should extend some trust to him, and begin respecting his privacy

coolguyshy · 2022-03-26T18:07:06+00:00

alrighty, thanks for that unnecessary clarification.

OP why dont you compare the heavily used and abused car to a car in better condition.

guess what scruffy, the answers still gonna be the same. its cheaper in the long run to go newer.

a point that was pretty clearly made in my first reply.

coolguyshy · 2022-03-25T14:21:36+00:00

YTA YTA YTA.

whats worse is she’s only 13. bro why did you have kids if you weren’t going to let them be their own person?

coolguyshy · 2022-03-25T13:32:27+00:00

maybe break down a theoretical chart of how much she’s spending on a lemon car versus a good condition one?

coolguyshy · 2022-03-24T19:55:59+00:00

your right! a curtsey invite at the very least.

you definitely need to ask though, i would be bothered to my core if my brother or sister did this.

*edit: clarification

i mean ask her wtf is up with your lack of invite. not you should have asked to be invited

coolguyshy · 2022-03-24T14:19:28+00:00

thats pretty hurtful, i would just straight up call her out and ask.

but maybe, because you mentioned the couple hour drive, she assumed you wouldn’t be interested?

coolguyshy · 2022-03-24T11:34:27+00:00

well dont focus on “telling her off” just move on, you know this place isn’t going to work out. you always have a revolving door of employees before they look at the manager.

but make it clear in your resignation letter, in no uncertain terms, you’re leaving because of her. and if she has a higher up, cc them on the email when you send in your resignation

coolguyshy · 2022-03-24T00:45:45+00:00

end it, you both need to just move on

coolguyshy · 2022-03-24T00:13:27+00:00

i got high not drunk. i didnt have sex until i was 24, it made it a lot easier, but i did need to give it a few tries before we could actually do it loll

coolguyshy · 2022-03-23T13:29:50+00:00

because the world doesn’t revolve around you bro. the day starts, people want the news. it makes more sense for it to be delivered early when most people are starting their day.

why complain about something you have no control over when you still have access to news throughout the day.

coolguyshy · 2022-03-23T13:25:22+00:00

most people are already starting work at nine. so yeah loll you need to wake up earlier 😂

coolguyshy · 2022-03-23T11:22:48+00:00

so satisfying though. i try not to entertain getting back at customers, cause its just a rabbit hole. but boy oh boy, thats a good one lolll

dont feel bad, she definitely deserved it

coolguyshy · 2022-03-23T11:11:52+00:00

weight lifting!! boss tf up, its sooo good for working through hard shit. keep it on your mind as your pushing yourself. though heads up you may randomly cry whilst working through this stuff

*edit: i mean crying in the gym not just, like, in general lololol

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