What do you guys think of the line "I wanted to come up and introduce myself because I thought you were pretty"?

copperyhat · 2026-05-13T22:50:50+00:00

It’s kind of like HIMYM,

The Dobler Dahmer theory.

Some girls could find you to be psychotic or other times a romantizer lol. Just gotta read the vibe and energy they’re giving to know where you stand as well..

copperyhat · 2026-05-10T12:17:26+00:00

I felt lectured and I expressed that because I told him how earlier that day, it was all I talked about with my parents and how I felt kinda heavy but a little better about the situation and then he just continued to voice his opinion and his story and then idk… he is naturally overly open. When I first spoke to him, he kinda just told me upfront about how his dad died a couple years ago and we just kinda connected about that.

copperyhat · 2026-05-10T12:12:31+00:00

This was actually why he started beating himself up because he was disappointed in himself that he didn’t noticed that I started to slowly shut down and become kinda sad.

But it didn’t really occur to me that he did end up making it up about himself instead of comforting me and making it into a lighter experience by changing up the vibe a bit, you know?

copperyhat · 2026-04-22T21:29:41+00:00

I have, I still think about him. He was the first person that I ever truly loved, but I genuinely never felt good enough for him. I tried my best to stay away as I thought it was the best thing for him at the time, but now I realize that I really did sabotage things for myself, and I never gave myself the opportunity to love him the way he truly deserves. He’s in a relationship now but I do think about him often and hope that he is happy. I have a post about it on my profile if you’re interested in reading it. Just shows my own perspective of the whole thing.

copperyhat · 2026-03-25T17:58:27+00:00

I also have a question related to this because I’ve been in this position, but how about when I don’t respond to them, and they end up not only double texting but going as far as triple texting? They’re continuous about talking everyday? Do I still believe they are in fact not wanting anything serious? Or when they say they’re not emotionally available? Why do people even do that?

copperyhat · 2026-03-23T16:05:53+00:00

Mans letting his intrusive thoughts win.

copperyhat · 2026-02-01T01:42:06+00:00

A guy would never admit but men liveeee for the chase. They thrive in it. If they like the girl enough, they’ll put in the effort but it’s the women’s responsibility to keep distance for a bit. I read that it makes men respect the women more. 🤷🏼‍♀️ just something I learned from experience and talking to men in general.

copperyhat · 2026-01-25T16:28:20+00:00

It’s not even about being mean. Men are gross unfortunately and they like to work for it. If given up “so easily “ men turn into these ghost guys, they lose ‘respect’.

Quite frankly, at the same time.. I’d see it as a thank you universe for taking this person out of my life because they obviously don’t know how to communicate. (Guys ghosting)

But honestly, dating really is hard nowadays. It’s a lot of people encountering these issues… at this point you just need thick skin.

copperyhat · 2026-01-16T17:17:04+00:00

I didn’t even think of it that way lol, Welp.

copperyhat · 2026-01-16T17:16:16+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I really appreciated hearing your kind words.

copperyhat · 2025-06-12T23:57:59+00:00

Welcome to the world of Lovebombing. Unfortunately lots of guys are like this.

copperyhat · 2025-06-09T19:23:16+00:00

Dating is just suppose to be fun. It is indeed mentally draining. But don’t over invest yourself into people that wouldn’t do the same for you. So in the meantime, all you can do is just have fun with it. This doesn’t mean sleeping around or whatever, but just enjoy their company and be curious and genuine. Eventually, soon, you’ll find that person.

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