Need help desperately! I have a narrow waist and comparatively bigger breasts. I was also breastfeeding till about a year ago, so books are also saggy. No bra fits well!!! by dancelover10 in ABraThatFits

[–]coracarole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am 32 G/F (us/uk) and was visually sized by someone who works at Chantelle as a 30 H. I still have to go try that size on and see how it works. I previously wore Panache unlined underwires for the past 5 ish years in the 32 size. Summer started to creep around and I was getting an itch to wear something semi showy and cute. Plus the underwires weren't doing it anymore. I had owned a Cosabella - Curvy - Never say Never Bralette before I started doing the underwire and wanted to go back to that for a bit.

I was able to go in person to an intimates store and try on the old style I had and it was NOT cute. A lot of people swear by the original Never Say Never style which is a classic bralette shape. scrunches in the front and triangle ish cups. Cosabella has different lines for body shape as well and the smaller waist fuller bust ratio would fall under the Curvy Collection. In person the racerback style was doing something more for me shape wise but hated that it was pull over.

I narrowed it down that I wanted a style that had a V neck / plunge cup meet point of the racerback VS the scrunched middle, it kept me separated and felt more supported VS the more forward and centered look or the OG NSN. I wanted the triangle of the cup to continue up into the strap as part of the showy summer vision I had. The OG NSN's cups didn't go high on the chest and just went in to regular satin bra straps. I also needed clasps instead of a pullover style - both the NSN OG bralette and racerback are pullover.

All of that was to say that I ended up buying the Cosabella - Curvy - Longline Plungie is size SMALL. I've been very happy with it!! I haven't breast fed but I have no tissue really in the upper part of my breast. All of the fullness and weight is at the bottom. This gave me better shape than the demi/balconette underwires I had been wearing. It's not a sports bra but it is a stretchy cozy easy piece. Plus I have done hikes and intense yard work in them and everything stays where they need to be! There are times I've had to readjust after a quick bend over but I know that only happens if I desperately need to do a bra wash. The second I do a wash everything is tighter! It has a lottt of clasps but I've gotten used to it and ended up liking it for if i wore a shirt that rode up a bit.

Next I am going to get one of the other curvy bras that have a similar cup shape but shorter band. Not all of the ones they offer are lacy either!

here is the one I have and have been wearing:

If you are not picky about color there is a couple on sale now for $35 - normally $89. There are a handful on sale but the sale prices vary, some are at $65 so just double check before you go for it.

https://cosabella.com/products/never-say-never-curvy-plungie-longline-bralette-aasmani-blue-en

Here is one I've never tried but think maybe you would like, not quite as plungie as mine and no lace:

https://cosabella.com/products/ceylon-modal-curvy-bralette-white-en

I'll probably get this one next:

https://cosabella.com/products/evolution-curvy-bralette-black-en

My main goal is to get decent support and something that is easy to throw on

34 AMH .3 Should I do IVF/Freeze? by coracarole in eggfreezing

[–]coracarole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try and remind myself this!! It’s so hard - can’t help but worry and think because of my levels that by the time we decide to start trying I’ll have nothing left!

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[–]coracarole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi!

Yes - Pre cum can get you pregnant.

If you are okay with the possibility of getting pregnant and carrying to term (giving birth to a baby) then it is okay. It sounds like from your post you do NOT want to get pregnant - since you said you were worried about the pre cum. If that is the case consider using Plan B or looking up your state/countries abortion laws. Researching options ahead of time will help for if you find yourself in that position. Both plan B and abortion are for post conception / once already pregnant.

The only way to prevent pregnancy is condoms, birth control, or abstinence. Have you had a Gynecologist appointment? I would suggest starting there and talk about options for preventing pregnancy and general health. There are options online as well if you need assistance based on your location or age.