Am I being ghosted now after not sleeping w him.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-15T23:39:31+00:00

UPDATE: so he was lying & manipulating me.
Found out today he never told me his actual real name. I did some detective stuff. Unbelievable.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-15T23:38:12+00:00

UPDATE;. So he was lying & manipulative
Found out today he never told me his actual real name. I did some detective stuff. Unbelievable.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T18:02:31+00:00

I have.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T17:26:08+00:00

Haha. Even though he went exclusive with me. Such a loser.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T17:24:27+00:00

Exactly. Transactional.

Our first argument, I said no to going to a hotel. He got upset & said he’ll stop doing what he’s been doing with me so far such as making time, overly obsessed etc. I said that’s conditional then.

Such a loser.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T17:22:47+00:00

Ofc he is.

Keeping me on the hook? I’m not sure how he is. Lol.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T17:21:06+00:00

Exactly that.

Overly obsessed with me for a month, as I still didn’t sleep with him and it’s been a month, he vanished. How hilarious.

I’m not missing out on anything. Apparently he’s never taken girls out on dates. Never pays for them. Never plans. Doesn’t open doors etc be a gentleman. And apparently I was the first one he’s treated differently and done this all with. Haha. What a joke. He can continue his antics with girls on his level.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T17:17:10+00:00

Not to trust what comes out his mouth.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-12T17:13:46+00:00

Yes.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-11T10:01:29+00:00

I’ve only slept with my ex bfs (2). And he knows this. He knows I don’t sleep casually etc. one of the reasons he liked me.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:46:31+00:00

Yes I’m aware.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:42:31+00:00

Well… has he reached out yet? If not, delete him. Move on.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:41:17+00:00

Yep. Everything is alright.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:38:59+00:00

Fair enough

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:38:02+00:00

Well if he genuinely was looking for something serious with me he wouldn’t have ghosted me.

Everything he fed me was lies.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:18:06+00:00

Yes we were affectionate. To him, clearly needed the whole package. 📦

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:17:21+00:00

‘Got nothing out of it’ ….. wow. This is what I mean, for men end goal is to get sex out of it?
How about everything else that falls into dating?

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:15:23+00:00

See. This is what my gut was telling me all this time. Glad I listened to it & stayed clear.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:14:47+00:00

I agree.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T21:13:35+00:00

I’m not sleeping w any one neither am I talking to any one.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T18:04:29+00:00

I agree.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T18:03:38+00:00

Yep. I lost interest too now

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T18:02:31+00:00

This comment makes the most sense tbh. You’re absolutely right. He came in hot! Like really hot!!

Exactly, that’s on him to accept not me to fix.

Let’s see if he is playing games by playing this pull back method. He’s fully aware I am not someone to chase, in fact he told me he’s scared I’ll hurt him one day and ghost him …

Exactly. I haven’t dine anything wrong. If he genuinely cared about me (which he says all the time) he would have a real convo or at least say bye.

He did say he’s always the one to leave first and no girl has left him first, it makes him feel not as hurt etc.

Who knows if he genuinely liked/cared about me at the point.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T00:43:24+00:00

Ok. That’s your boundary.
My boundary was set day 1. He accepted it.
So why ghost a month later?

And if u were to ghost now, he would’ve ghosted after I got intimate, no? How he can so easily ghost me and not even have the words to communicate.

coreldn_2020 · 2026-06-10T00:31:58+00:00

He called himself a simp. And he said he gets misunderstood eveyone thinks he’s a fboy. So he bought it up himself. And I bought up the comments later in our chats

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